I've been with my husband for seven years,he was in love with me since then until he has given lift to work with a girl that he work with since February 2008 and he start seen this girl since July 2008.
I didnt know till February 2009.
When he start seen this his girl, he always got angry, argue and swearing all the time. He said he wasnt happy because I dont want to do anything!
I think,I didnt want to do anything because he always unconfortable to be with me anymore because he wanted to spend time with his girl.
The woman that he has seen is works with him and work at the same team.
When I had enough with his behaviour,I had lie to him that I've seen someone else just to make him angry because I knew there was something wrong and everyone I talk about him think that he has another girl.
just a week ago I left my house and move somewhere else because the truth about him and his girl was came up.
he didnt wanted to tell me and just blame me for what he has done because I didnt make him happy.
Everyday before I move, he keep upset and come and cry. he told me that he will drop everything for me to take him back.
but he need some time to think about it because he is in love to his girl.
I thought maybe he will change and our married will got better cause he learn his mistake.
I also I still love him and I want to live with him for the rest of my life.
He is staying with this girl at her house all the time, but he told me that he wants to be alone and short out his messed with this girl.
he said he was confuse, when he was with this girl he thinks about me and when he was with me he thinks about this girl.
I also confuse with what he wants, because he comes to me told me that we will be together in 2 months time because he needs time to think about what he wants because he still confuse.
I thought that he really mean it because he comes and cry and told me to wait without doing something permanent to my self like, seen other guy and get pregnant.
or dont buy too many things for my new flat because we gonna going back together.
I believe all of that because I thought he mean it!
Yesterday I found out that he didnt stay on his own in our old house but he was spending time with this girl.
He didnt answer my call, he ignored my text message and until I told him if he dont call me back then I will go to his girlfriend house and wait for him because I need to talk.
He was worry that I was gonna do it then he call me and come to see me last night to talk to me.
He said he didnt ask me to wait for him and he told me to move on to my life until two months time and he will give me an anwer.
but in my few, I dont think he was trying to clear his head from his confuse feeling about me and this girl.
he ask me to wait for him and and the same time he spend time with this girl, he just try to get to know her better and if its doesnt work and he can comeback to me!
I think he takes advantage on me because I love him so much and I always feel sorry when he comes to me and cry.
I still love him and so difficult for me to ignore him when he call me and tell me a nice dream about a future if we got back together.
I really dont know what to do!
I want to hate him and ignore him but its too difficult for me because I love him. I try to be a really nice and gentle to him but he keep hurt me more everyday.
I cry and lock my self in my bedroom because every time I go out I am so scare to see him with his girl friend because its gonna hurt me.
sometimes I go out from my house people told me that they saw my husband with a girl.
I am foreign in this country and I am here because my husband, in this town we live I have nice job and better money and I was lucky to have this job and I dont think I can find another job like that.
Please tell me how to ignore this man and tell him something that hurt his feeling.
I dont know what on his mind and why he enjoy watch me suffering.
I dont think he will be a good husband for me if we get back together, I just want to try to forget about him and ignore him and move on to my new life without him.