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    This is making me crazy.

    I told my boyfriend I was going to go eat dinner and i'd call him right after. He knows it doesn't take me long to eat. So I called him after and he didn't answer, no biggie.

    Except that I've been trying to get ahold of him for over an hour and a half and he's not answering! I don't understand it. If he was going to go do something, he would of told me.

    This is making me mad. I've had a REALLY bad day today. Like awful, I had a break down.

    And this is NOT helping. Expecially since I'm not a patient person in the least.

    Advice?

    I have a huge migraine and I'm so on edge.

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    take a nap.

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    That's not easy for me to do when I'm all anxious and have a killer headache.

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    Remind yourself as many times as possible that he has a life, he is his own person, and unless there is some urgent reason you need to speak with him now as opposed to later or tomorrow, he is entitled to time to himself, or time to talk to others, or whatever it is he feels like doing. He doesn't need to live by your schedule. Remind yourself that you promised to work on how you react to your emotions. This is one of those times your promise to do that is being tested. If you care about him you will stop calling and contacting him and let him call you back when he wants to call you back and not a minute earlier.

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    Well this is just so unusual for him.

    I'm starting to think something bad happened to him.

    Because he always answers the phone. If he was going to go with a friend or go to the gym etc, he would of texted me to tell me that.

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    Are you calling a cell phone. Maybe he put it on vibrate or something and forgot to turn the ringer back on.

    I do that all the time, lol.

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    Well all he has is a cellphone so yeah. And that has happened before, but he KNOWS I was going to call him after dinner. And it's been nearly 2 hrs since I've heard from him.

    If it was on vibrate, he would of checked if by now to see if i had called.

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    Agree with Batya.

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    how many times have you said this same story on ENA? just wait it out. do something else.

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    I also agree with Bataya but it is so damn hard. I don't know anything else I could do that would take my mind off all of this worrying.

    I'm posting this so I don't try to call anymore.

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