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    Originally Posted by orangetemple
    If sex is that unimportant to her i would say that the same thig happened with her ex
    It's funny, when we first started dating, she asked me "So, do you have a sex drive?" I blushed, and said yes, because I do love sex. Honestly. She said sex is VERY important to her in any relationship. And now this. Perplexing eh?

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    Originally Posted by RyanD333
    It'd be very interesting to sit and share a pint with him and get his take on things. Lord knows what I'd learn. Her friends and family support her version of events.
    Her friends and family probably only know HER version of events. Even if he stated his case, not many family members and close friends go to the side of the ex who they are not close to. I would not take what they say about the break up with more than a grain of salt. They did not live in the marital bedroom.

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    anyway it doesnt matter what happned with the ex.

    all that matters is what is going on here. consider the possibilities.

    1. you end up in separate beds within 2 years
    2. you end up cheating on her because you are so pent up
    3. you have one final discussion with her and see if things change
    4. you leave her to save years of pain.

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    Originally Posted by RyanD333
    It's funny, when we first started dating, she asked me "So, do you have a sex drive?" I blushed, and said yes, because I do love sex. Honestly. She said sex is VERY important to her in any relationship. And now this. Perplexing eh?

    I dont know, that all sounds very iffy......

    she might have been fishing, hoping maybe you DIDNT have a sex drive.

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    Originally Posted by orangetemple
    anyway it doesnt matter what happned with the ex.

    all that matters is what is going on here. consider the possibilities.

    1. you end up in separate beds within 2 years
    2. you end up cheating on her because you are so pent up
    3. you have one final discussion with her and see if things change
    4. you leave her to save years of pain.
    In a way it does matter because i think past behavior can be a good predictor of future behavior. What knowing this would glean him is that he has more of a picture that it WONT get better so he can nix that hope, and that it was bad enough to make a man committed by marriage to leave.

    Knowing this won't change his plight, but it can help him see the reality more clearly that is still a bit clouded by his feelings for her.

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    Originally Posted by orangetemple
    anyway it doesnt matter what happned with the ex.

    all that matters is what is going on here. consider the possibilities.

    1. you end up in separate beds within 2 years
    2. you end up cheating on her because you are so pent up
    3. you have one final discussion with her and see if things change
    4. you leave her to save years of pain.
    I honestly would rather sleep in the spare bedroom as of now. What's the point of being here beside her? She's two feet from me right now and I'm here, with my laptop, on a forum, trying to figure out OUR relationship.

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    I just mean that he is never really going to find out the truth.

    Ryan have a look at my thread and you'll see what she is tossing away is exactly what i am wanting back! Kind of ironic. I guess i feel a little angry at your girlfriend.

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    Originally Posted by RyanD333
    I honestly would rather sleep in the spare bedroom as of now. What's the point of being here beside her? She's two feet from me right now and I'm here, with my laptop, on a forum, trying to figure out OUR relationship.
    I agree that this must be very frustrating.

    Maybe you should show her this thread.

    Nothing lonelier than being lonely with a partner at your side who is millions of miles away emotionally.

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    Originally Posted by RyanD333
    I honestly would rather sleep in the spare bedroom as of now. What's the point of being here beside her? She's two feet from me right now and I'm here, with my laptop, on a forum, trying to figure out OUR relationship.
    Oh jeez, Ryan, you need to seriously talk with her asap

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    Not that good sex is only for the young by no means but man, you are WAY too young to start getting this jaded on relationships....and being this miserable with a gorgeous women you love who won't let you touch her.

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