Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 29

Thread: Addicted to Rough Sex

  1. #1
    kenshinkitten
    Bronze Member kenshinkitten's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Bellevue, WA
    Age
    28
    Posts
    601
    Gender
    Female

    Addicted to Rough Sex

    Is it possible to be addicted to Rough sex or any kind of sex?

    My boyfriend and I have been just letting loose on each other like nobody's business for a long time, like 6 months. Crazy, rough, sweaty kind of sex. It's awesome don't get me wrong.
    Last night when we had sex though it was just...meh. Plain normal average sex, not fast or slow...it was so boring...I didn't feel anything and the times I did was when we did a tiny bit extra work.

    The thing is though though that I want to just have normal sex sometimes, I don't want to get completely exhausted every time we have sex.

    Is it possible to get so used to rough sex that normal sex is just not pleasurable anymore?

  2. #2
    ~Seraphim ~
    Forum Supporter ~Seraphim ~'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared
    Age
    50
    Posts
    31,446
    Gender
    Female
    Thanked
    5136
    Anything not done with moderation is not good. Nothing is quite the same when it is all the time all the time all the time. Then it fast becomes same ole stuff. You have to mix it up.

  3. #3
    ryan123

    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    MASSHOLE
    Age
    30
    Posts
    1,208
    Gender
    Male
    Not possible for me. I love rough sex and I love the times where I just hold her close and thrust slowly and passionately. But maybe thats because we don't do either for 6 months straight.

    I couldn't have rough sex with someone I had feelings with every time.

  4. #4
    Aviatormy
    Platinum Member Aviatormy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Albuquerque NM
    Age
    35
    Posts
    1,161
    Gender
    Male
    Yes, I think that you can easily become addicted to rough sex. This would be ok if rough sex was actually EASY. The fact that it does wear you out though is not a great thing. You will become so bored with your partner if you continue to do this and ultimately, you may end up leaving him because of it.

    Try to go at least a couple weeks without the rough sex and try to connect with him all over agian through a more intence version of "slow sex".

    You need to try and discard that passion for a bit but I know that will be tough

    Good luck with that.

  5. #5
    drewciouS281

    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    Where ever the Snow, Dunes or Beach are!!!!
    Age
    35
    Posts
    2,847
    Gender
    Male
    i agree with aviator. although at first you may not like it or find it as pleasureable, practice it without the roughness. try some kinky sex with toys. that doesnt have to be exausting.

  6. #6
    ghost69
    Platinum Member ghost69's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Desert
    Posts
    33,101
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    3
    rough sex is how i usually do it. it's almost always exciting. addicted? i guess i am. cause i do the neck grabbing, hips grabbing, booty slapping, hair pulling all the time.

  7. #7
    kenshinkitten
    Bronze Member kenshinkitten's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Bellevue, WA
    Age
    28
    Posts
    601
    Gender
    Female
    Well you're all making valid points...I'll try to tone it down for a while.
    Not that Ghost is making it any easier!! Grr...

  8. #8
    ghost69
    Platinum Member ghost69's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Desert
    Posts
    33,101
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    3
    it's sex. i never thought it was supposed to be normal. cept when i was 18 or something. i guess that was normal. i'm never going back.

  9. #9
    i_win
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Posts
    1,071
    Right now it seems that I'm addicted to the complete opposite. Sex so gentle in fact that I don't even notice that it's occurring. Oh yeah that's right, cause it isn't! Lucky me.

  10. #10
    teknoise
    Silver Member teknoise's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Location
    germany
    Posts
    395
    Gender
    Male
    Yes, its addictive. Because its good. If there is not some element of grabbing, biting, choking, hair pulling, twisting, pinning down, and deep thrusting its not good sex.

    But changing it up is kinda nice once in a while. Too bad everytime me and my gf try that it just gets rough again after a few minutes anyway.

  11.  

Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Top Threads
Trying to lose virginity but the pain is unbearable !!
Hi everyone! I have decided and to lose my virginity. My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex two times now, but as soon as he tries to
Is It Right To Call Me A Virgin Or No?
Here are the 2 most intimate things I have done with my ex-girlfriend: 1. Doggystyle dry sex and missionary dry sex. 2. Masturbating myself until
Sex without Condom
My boyfriend, who is also the father of my 8y/o child, has been in prison for 5 years, he's out and refuses to have sex without a condom. I am on
Touching me while I sleep
Ok so I'll keep this simple, my boyfriend touches me while I "sleep". I use quotation marks because I sleep really lightly and anyone who touches me
I am having some embarrassing issues related to sex, i need some advice please!
So im a virgin. I am 19 but staying a virgin has been MY personal choice. It may sound lame to some but i have been perfectly content with my
Am I in the wrong here?
In bed this morning my boyfriend and I were sleepily fooling around and after obvious hints from me he initiated foreplay. I was enjoying it and
My girlfriend wants to give a BJ, but I don't want to disappoint
I'm 18 and a virgin. My girlfriend and I are planning to keep our Virginity until we are 21. But she still wants to have other kinds of sex. She
Featured Threads
I didnt know this was cheating until i saw how much it hurt him
So my boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. It's been pretty close to perfect over all until last weekend. We trusted each other before this
Interview Vibes
Hello, eNA! I have posted a few times about my career search - thank you all for the help! I've been having a lot more luck lately and have four
Ex from seven years ago married
My ex from seven years got married in November 2016 he began dating this girl eight months after dumping me.hiw have I found this out? By the
❌Did i just get stood up????❌
A few weeks ago this guy and i started texting. It was a pretty instant interest right from the start, on both ends. He kept telling me how
HELP My boyfriend blocked me after an argument
Almost 3 weeks ago me and my (EX) boyfriend that ive been seeing for about a year had a huge explosive and petty fight over him being selfish/ self
My wife has zero trust in me
So we have been married for about 8 months now, everything was fine prior to marriage. From the day we got married to today, it has been a living
21, in a relationship and sexually frustrated
I'm 21 (female) and I'm dating a 28 year old. Ive had my round of men before him so I know exactly what I like during sex and he's PERFECT. But what
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •