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    Addicted to Rough Sex

    Is it possible to be addicted to Rough sex or any kind of sex?

    My boyfriend and I have been just letting loose on each other like nobody's business for a long time, like 6 months. Crazy, rough, sweaty kind of sex. It's awesome don't get me wrong.
    Last night when we had sex though it was just...meh. Plain normal average sex, not fast or slow...it was so boring...I didn't feel anything and the times I did was when we did a tiny bit extra work.

    The thing is though though that I want to just have normal sex sometimes, I don't want to get completely exhausted every time we have sex.

    Is it possible to get so used to rough sex that normal sex is just not pleasurable anymore?

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    Anything not done with moderation is not good. Nothing is quite the same when it is all the time all the time all the time. Then it fast becomes same ole stuff. You have to mix it up.

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    Not possible for me. I love rough sex and I love the times where I just hold her close and thrust slowly and passionately. But maybe thats because we don't do either for 6 months straight.

    I couldn't have rough sex with someone I had feelings with every time.

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    Yes, I think that you can easily become addicted to rough sex. This would be ok if rough sex was actually EASY. The fact that it does wear you out though is not a great thing. You will become so bored with your partner if you continue to do this and ultimately, you may end up leaving him because of it.

    Try to go at least a couple weeks without the rough sex and try to connect with him all over agian through a more intence version of "slow sex".

    You need to try and discard that passion for a bit but I know that will be tough

    Good luck with that.

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    i agree with aviator. although at first you may not like it or find it as pleasureable, practice it without the roughness. try some kinky sex with toys. that doesnt have to be exausting.

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    rough sex is how i usually do it. it's almost always exciting. addicted? i guess i am. cause i do the neck grabbing, hips grabbing, booty slapping, hair pulling all the time.

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    Well you're all making valid points...I'll try to tone it down for a while.
    Not that Ghost is making it any easier!! Grr...

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    it's sex. i never thought it was supposed to be normal. cept when i was 18 or something. i guess that was normal. i'm never going back.

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    Right now it seems that I'm addicted to the complete opposite. Sex so gentle in fact that I don't even notice that it's occurring. Oh yeah that's right, cause it isn't! Lucky me.

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    Yes, its addictive. Because its good. If there is not some element of grabbing, biting, choking, hair pulling, twisting, pinning down, and deep thrusting its not good sex.

    But changing it up is kinda nice once in a while. Too bad everytime me and my gf try that it just gets rough again after a few minutes anyway.

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