questions for lesbians

Hi, so I don't mean to offend anyone or start some kind of debate but I was just wondering why some lesbians like being with other women that look exactly like men??? I know it's not all, but some and it always confuses me. If you want to be with someone who looks 100% like a man, and even act like men then why not be with a man? If I was a lesbian I'd want to be with a hot girl that looked like a girl and was feminine. just a question.

Best of both worlds? I don't know but that's the best thing I can guess. Although I must say, I have somewhat always wondered the same thing. I've asked a few lesbians I knew and they really never could answer why they just said that's who they were attracted to. Same thing for the gay guys who are attracted to the feminine guys Or transvestites

yeah, I have the same questions for guys that like transvestites.

I would like to add my wondering to this pile too. It does seem incongruous

Yes iv wondered the same too? I dont mind who anyone goes for,i dont judge,but i have wondered about this..

Another one who has wondered the same thing.

I've just been too ashamed to start a thread. HaHa

i've always thought about it too

but if you notice, the manly women, still have boobs and a vagina, so maybe the women that like them is because they want the manly figure but just with boobs and a vagina??

same thing with males?

this is just my guess...

Iv also wondered why gay men do penetration . I mean thats what women were designed for. I have gay friends but havent asked them such personal questions.

But i think if i was a lesbian i would like an attractive feminine g/f..

Iv also wondered why gay men do penetration .

Same reason lesbians do penetration.

It feels good to them so they want the person/sex they are attracted to doing it.

Same reason lesbians do penetration.

 

It feels good to them so they want the person/sex they are attracted to doing it.

Lol yes i suppose thats it! I never thought about it like that. But its not something i think about deeply,just now & again...

Lol yes i suppose thats it! I never thought about it like that. But its not something i think about deeply,just now & again...

LOL I have always been curious about these things just never wanted to come out and ask people and offend them.

They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for

They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for

sounds good to me, i'm not a lesbian but i think that hits the nail on the head

lesbian and gay sexuality is a lot broader than the (either/or) masculine/feminine system that tends to define heterosexual sexuality.

sexuality and identity and personal preference are all meshed together, so it's hard to answer your question, but I believe we seek out the person that balances us, a person that represents both the masculine and the feminine, the manifestation of which has many unique looks- men that look like women, women that look like men, women that look like feminine men, men that look like masculine women, and everyone in between!

I know I tend to be attracted to masculine women, possibly because I am more feminine in certain aspects... but then my preference and what I find attractive changes constantly.

Sexuality and attraction are very mysterious.

They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for

but you can have strength & power but still look like a female.

but you can have strength & power but still look like a female.

But I guess you have to really look the part but for it to be complete.

I just know if I was lesbian i'd go for the hot girly girl lesbians.. Hell i'm straight but still think girls that are extremely girly are sexy.

so then what is it that attracts some gay men to transvestites?

i don't know either

I saw the pregnant "man" on Oprah and was totally confused. he/she had a wife and he/she had the baby....

i don't know either

so ur a lesbian that likes girly girls?

so ur a lesbian that likes girly girls?

I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian yet. But I like girly girls with a tomboy side to them, if that makes sense.

I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian yet. But I like girly girls with a tomboy side to them, if that makes sense.

I like those girls too. You get the girl, but you also get a "guy like" personality which makes them fun to hang out with and I generally have a lot in common with these types.

Hi, so I don't mean to offend anyone or start some kind of debate but I was just wondering why some lesbians like being with other women that look exactly like men??? I know it's not all, but some and it always confuses me. If you want to be with someone who looks 100% like a man, and even act like men then why not be with a man? If I was a lesbian I'd want to be with a hot girl that looked like a girl and was feminine. just a question.

 

i am sorry...weren't you condemning homosexuality like two weeks ago saying that they have mental problems? had a change of heart did you? willing to see that all people are equal and that homosexuality is not a choice?

i am sorry...weren't you condemning homosexuality like two weeks ago saying that they have mental problems? had a change of heart did you? willing to see that all people are equal and that homosexuality is a choice?

um. no. I feel exactly the same about it as I did before. I just had a question. I never said all people weren't equal and I did say it was a choice. please get your facts straight before you put words in my mouth. and If you came here to debate then just leave the thread. I just have a question.

just wondering about the intention behind the question...since you were so vocal about how wrong the act is. It's curious to me that you would want more details.