Krystal_Ivy Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Hi, so I don't mean to offend anyone or start some kind of debate but I was just wondering why some lesbians like being with other women that look exactly like men??? I know it's not all, but some and it always confuses me. If you want to be with someone who looks 100% like a man, and even act like men then why not be with a man? If I was a lesbian I'd want to be with a hot girl that looked like a girl and was feminine. just a question. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Best of both worlds? I don't know but that's the best thing I can guess. Although I must say, I have somewhat always wondered the same thing. I've asked a few lesbians I knew and they really never could answer why they just said that's who they were attracted to. Same thing for the gay guys who are attracted to the feminine guys Or transvestites Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 10, 2008 Author Share Posted June 10, 2008 yeah, I have the same questions for guys that like transvestites. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 I would like to add my wondering to this pile too. It does seem incongruous Link to comment
lillie Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Yes iv wondered the same too? I dont mind who anyone goes for,i dont judge,but i have wondered about this.. Link to comment
Portage Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Another one who has wondered the same thing. I've just been too ashamed to start a thread. HaHa Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 i've always thought about it too but if you notice, the manly women, still have boobs and a vagina, so maybe the women that like them is because they want the manly figure but just with boobs and a vagina?? same thing with males? this is just my guess... Link to comment
lillie Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Iv also wondered why gay men do penetration . I mean thats what women were designed for. I have gay friends but havent asked them such personal questions. But i think if i was a lesbian i would like an attractive feminine g/f.. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Iv also wondered why gay men do penetration . Same reason lesbians do penetration. It feels good to them so they want the person/sex they are attracted to doing it. Link to comment
lillie Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Same reason lesbians do penetration. It feels good to them so they want the person/sex they are attracted to doing it. Lol yes i suppose thats it! I never thought about it like that. But its not something i think about deeply,just now & again... Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 Lol yes i suppose thats it! I never thought about it like that. But its not something i think about deeply,just now & again... LOL I have always been curious about these things just never wanted to come out and ask people and offend them. Link to comment
i_win Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for Link to comment
charliebrown Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for sounds good to me, i'm not a lesbian but i think that hits the nail on the head Link to comment
Iris-PJ Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 lesbian and gay sexuality is a lot broader than the (either/or) masculine/feminine system that tends to define heterosexual sexuality. sexuality and identity and personal preference are all meshed together, so it's hard to answer your question, but I believe we seek out the person that balances us, a person that represents both the masculine and the feminine, the manifestation of which has many unique looks- men that look like women, women that look like men, women that look like feminine men, men that look like masculine women, and everyone in between! I know I tend to be attracted to masculine women, possibly because I am more feminine in certain aspects... but then my preference and what I find attractive changes constantly. Sexuality and attraction are very mysterious. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 10, 2008 Author Share Posted June 10, 2008 They don't like guys, but masculinity = strength so if you don't like guys, but strength and power turns you on, those will be the chicks u go for but you can have strength & power but still look like a female. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 but you can have strength & power but still look like a female. But I guess you have to really look the part but for it to be complete. I just know if I was lesbian i'd go for the hot girly girl lesbians.. Hell i'm straight but still think girls that are extremely girly are sexy. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 11, 2008 Author Share Posted June 11, 2008 so then what is it that attracts some gay men to transvestites? Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 11, 2008 Author Share Posted June 11, 2008 I saw the pregnant "man" on Oprah and was totally confused. he/she had a wife and he/she had the baby.... Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 11, 2008 Author Share Posted June 11, 2008 i don't know either so ur a lesbian that likes girly girls? Link to comment
greywolf Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 so ur a lesbian that likes girly girls? I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian yet. But I like girly girls with a tomboy side to them, if that makes sense. Link to comment
i_win Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian yet. But I like girly girls with a tomboy side to them, if that makes sense. I like those girls too. You get the girl, but you also get a "guy like" personality which makes them fun to hang out with and I generally have a lot in common with these types. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 Hi, so I don't mean to offend anyone or start some kind of debate but I was just wondering why some lesbians like being with other women that look exactly like men??? I know it's not all, but some and it always confuses me. If you want to be with someone who looks 100% like a man, and even act like men then why not be with a man? If I was a lesbian I'd want to be with a hot girl that looked like a girl and was feminine. just a question. i am sorry...weren't you condemning homosexuality like two weeks ago saying that they have mental problems? had a change of heart did you? willing to see that all people are equal and that homosexuality is not a choice? Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 11, 2008 Author Share Posted June 11, 2008 i am sorry...weren't you condemning homosexuality like two weeks ago saying that they have mental problems? had a change of heart did you? willing to see that all people are equal and that homosexuality is a choice? um. no. I feel exactly the same about it as I did before. I just had a question. I never said all people weren't equal and I did say it was a choice. please get your facts straight before you put words in my mouth. and If you came here to debate then just leave the thread. I just have a question. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted June 11, 2008 Share Posted June 11, 2008 just wondering about the intention behind the question...since you were so vocal about how wrong the act is. It's curious to me that you would want more details. Link to comment
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