I have been married for 12 years. I always thought my husband was completely straight and loved women. We did experiment with dildos and ass play with fingers, strap-ons etc... I thought it was normal for him to like this with me....Until recently when I discovered he is reading about men who crave * * * * and he is also look at male porno videos.
I am freaking out. He has not said anything and I have not told him I know.
We have an amazing sex life.
I do not think I can handle staying married to a bi-sexual man, or a man who is really gay but just does not know it yet. He is 40. Is this latent coming out slowly happening to him...??? Please share your thoughts. I am so sad.