Girls - Orgasms (16+ only, mature content :P)

Okay, here's what happened.

A while ago, my girlfriend was masturbating (yes, she lets me watch on webcam and... I'm not quite sure how to explain it. After masturbating, you always get that really good feeling, right? But hers lasted for about 15 minutes afterwards. The way she described the first 10 minutes was "it was like I was climaxing over and over again". And then for the next 15 minutes she was absolutely content and apparently, had I been there, she "would do anything at all for me she felt so good" (really wishing I was there!! lol)

She said afterwards that she suspects it was because she had "both kinds of orgasms at once". Apparently, girls can reach climax two ways - either from deep penetration or from "a flap of skin" or something like that outside the vagina, and when rubbed it induces the same sensation... so now my question is, a) would having both kinds of orgasms at once trigger that long-lasting contentment, and b) suppose we were having sex, how could I get her to that point? She has already expressed a desire to have me get her to that point

The flap of skin - isn't really a flap but what you're describing is the clitoris.

You should have absolutely no reason to be buying viagra at 16 either. It's for older men who can't get or maintain an erection.

As for orgasms - just do what makes her feel good and don't be so focused on making sure she is having a clitoral or vaginal orgasm.

You can't get viagra unless it's prescribed.. At 16 you'd be doing more damage by taking viagra.

For your other questions, as PP said, the "flap of skin" is called a clitoris.. A female can have both a clitoral orgasm and gspot orgasm and yes they're both different and when you do have both at the same time it is mind blowing.

ok, ok... I was just wondering.

Never personally heard of an orgasm lasting that long.

Several things I would like to comment on though:

1 - I think it's inappropriate and a VERY bad idea for you to use Viagra. You will probably have no problem maintaining an erection most likely. Viagra is a PRESCRIPTION DRUG. Have you never seen those commercials "if you have an erection lasting more than 4 hours, go to the ER"? I would imagine you would be at a much higher risk if you don't have ED in the first place.

2 - Make sure you are ready to have sex before you do and remember to use both protection against STDs and birth control, if you don't want to get pregnant.

ok where the hell did viagra come into it?

2 - Make sure you are ready to have sex before you do and remember to use both protection against STDs and birth control, if you don't want to get pregnant.

Yes, me and her have already talked about that. I have condoms, she has birth control.

ok where the hell did viagra come into it?

He's young, inexperienced and probably doesn't know the first thing about viagra nor sexual intercourse so he is probably thinking he needs it or wants to take it so he's guaranteed to have an erection. No offense, I have just seen this alot.

Good for you! Glad you are being responsible

(Meant in response to ilovethatgirl's last post)

He's young, inexperienced and probably doesn't know the first thing about viagra nor sexual intercourse so he is probably thinking he needs it or wants to take it so he's guaranteed to have an erection. No offense, I have just seen this alot.

....no offense taken..?

its not that at all! I just don't want to disappoint

i didnt see anything about viagra

back ontopic, at 16 your hormones are all over the place, and erections last long enough. viagra tends to be for the "older" men, nearing their 60s.

I don't mean to be patronizing, really ... but are you sure you feel ready to have sex with this girl? It might not be a big deal to you, but since it sounds like you're a virgin, on the off chance that it is ... Your relationship sounds really rocky (or was as of a week ago). Are you sure you want to take the next step?

Never personally heard of an orgasm lasting that long.

I'm assuming it wasn't one long orgasm, but rather multiple orgasms.

i didnt see anything about viagra

 

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....no offense taken..?

 

its not that at all! I just don't want to disappoint

 

Viagra could actually be bad for you. You're body might learn to only function using the drug and then you'd always have to take it which would be terrible at such a young age.

 

Make sure you and your girlfriend are ready to have sex because you two are young and it can complicate things emotionally.

 

But I guess this is the place to ask questions if you're going to. Better to ask than to assume and do something that could cost you long term.

I don't mean to be patronizing, really ... but are you sure you feel ready to have sex with this girl? It might not be a big deal to you, but since it sounds like you're a virgin, on the off chance that it is ... Your relationship sounds really rocky (or was as of a week ago). Are you sure you want to take the next step?

Well... we're planning it for over the summer. And we just don't talk about what happened, things are pretty much back to normal now.

And yes I am ready... I know a lot of people must be thinking, "well hes a 16-yr-old boy of course he wants to have sex"... but that's not it... the idea of sex with anyone else doesn't even really appeal to me at all at the moment... its just her

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Viagra could actually be bad for you. You're body might learn to only function using the drug and then you'd always have to take it which would be terrible at such a young age.

Viagra is non-habit forming. It's a vasodiolator. People are prescribed it for ED and elevated blood pressure. I would be more concerned of low blood pressures it can cause than anything else.

Viagra is non-habit forming. It's a vasodiolator. People are prescribed it for ED and elevated blood pressure. I would be more concerned of low blood pressures it can cause than anything else.

Doesn't matter if it's habit forming or not It's just like any other medication, if you take it when you don't need it, it can really screw with you and cause problems.

Read up on anatomy, if you're having sex and you don't know what a clitoris is...god help you sir.

In answer to one of your questions (I think most have aleady been answered), the best way to make her have a gspot and clittoral orgasm at the same time during sex is for you to be on top, stimulate her gspot with your penis and use your hand to stimulate her clit. This works for me and my BF and it is a great orgasm when achieved. Also, during oral he will work my clit with his mouth and when I am about to achieve an orgasm he will slide fingers into my vagina and stroke my gspot. That is mindblowing!!! Hope it help...Cat

Girl on top facing the guy is also another good way to achieve clitoral and gspot orgasms together..

i had an ex that used to have a lot of 'tremors' yep, 30 minutes later after sex too.

and yes there are 2 orgasms for women.

It does sound like your gf had multiple orgasms. As people mentioned, it's unlikely that any one particular orgasm could last that long.

If the hormones are right and you get a good wave, it's possible to hang in there and come several times in a row with only seconds between orgasms. It's also possible to have more than one orgasm close together (a little different from "multiple" orgasms because you go down the slope farther before coming up again).

Your "flap of skin" comment really surprised me. I wonder how many guys overlook the clitoris because it's small and located outside the vagina. Small doesn't mean a thing—it's a sex organ just like the penis and it's packed with nerve endings, very sensitive (and even more so right after orgasm). It makes me wonder if guys are also misinformed about the G-spot. It's in line with the clitoris about two inches inside the vagina (or slightly less, depending on the woman), not deep inside the vagina.

For a very simple answer if you are having sex and you want to produce this same effect then you have to stimulate both. More importantly is timing because that is the key. At 16 you just need to experiment and realize that what works for your gf may not work for other girls. See what moves she responds to and the ones that she doesnt.