he is cheating on me

I caught him today. He doesn't know that I know. I saw it with my own eyes.

I am heartbroken.

I thought he was the one.

:sad:

I'm sorry to hear!!

Wait, how did you catch him?

I'm so sorry. It always hurts when the person you love cheats, it's an arrow that goes right through your heart. Please stay strong and if you ever need support - people of ENA will help you. Best of luck and stay strong.

*I hope you talk to him and tell him what you saw. I hope you are honest and let him go because you do not deserve to be treated like that in any way.

I saw them together. They were out in public together.

I don't even want to talk to him right now.

I feel like I don't even know who he really is...like I'm having a really, really bad dream.

Are you sure he is cheating with her?

I ask because I knew of a similar occurrence where a girl saw her b/f with another woman and dumped him. Turned out she was his sister who was in town unexpectedly.

I saw them together. They were out in public together.

 

I don't even want to talk to him right now.

 

I feel like I don't even know who he really is...like I'm having a really, really bad dream.

Okay, wait a second.

This could be a number of things.

More details are needed.

If it was just him and some girl, no kissing, no closeness, possibly a friend?

Some closeness, maybe a relative?=/

What exactly was going on, what where they doing?

It just seems like your jumping to conclusions. How long have you been with him?

they were holding hands and laughing and giggling...and I saw them kiss

my heart was pounding so hard, I thought I was going to pass out

I came right home, and I'm trying to calm down...I feel freaked out, and sort of numb

my heart keeps racing, and I feel sort of dizzy

I keep seeing them in my head...and I am wondering if they, you know...went all the way

omg what an evil bastard, trust me it's his loss not yours! Ugh I can imagine how much pain youre feeling, I'm so sorry

In February he told me that he was really overwhelmed with work, family, stress...he said that he needed to slow things down, breathe a bit, but assured me he still wanted to be with me. Now I'm wondering if that was a lie.

I've known him for a total of eight years. We have been close for a long time.

it doesn't feel 'real' right now...I feel so weird

I think I'm having panic attacks over and over.

yer he probs was lying, maybe he was trying to decide who he preferred, well don't give him the option!

I am sorry to hear that. I can imagine how awful it is.

But I can say this, only this-

You deserve better, and you will have better.

I can honestly say that I have never cheated-I am very proud of that-I can't imagine doing so.

There are many others out there that would never do this.

And you deserve to find someone like that.

I am sorry for your pain.

I had a similar feeling when I found out something about someone I felt in love with (someone i'd never felt that way about or have felt that way about since) It felt like my heart had plummeted to the bottom of my body and I felt like I was going to puke

I feel sad and angry...I hate him right now, but I still love him. Does that make any sense?

Hi Pink,

I'm sorry to hear that. I do agree with DN that perhaps you need more information, but what you describe does indeed sound fishy.

How long have you been with him?

Do you plan to confront him about this?

I feel sad and angry...I hate him right now, but I still love him. Does that make any sense?

completely I felt the same way about the person I mentioned

It felt like my heart had plummeted to the bottom of my body and I felt like I was going to puke

yeah...that's how I feel

what a jerk he is!!!

My stepdad and I were out having a beer together once (Yea, because my family is cool like that.) and one of the wiatresses at the bar knew my Mom and went and told her he was cheating. My mom knew better though.

Be sure before you blow up.

Do you plan to confront him about this?

I don't want to say anything. I just want to ignore him from now on.

I just want to disappear from his life!

They way he was kissing her...it could only be cheating. I don't want to describe it too much...it's making me want to puke...and cry.

Your perfectly normal, but I would of gone to buy a pie with that whip cream on it, then gone up to him and thrown it in his face. Then said, you cheating bastard!!!!!!! Then walked away.. that would of been funny LOL.

You do need to confront him, ignoring him wont help at all!!!!

Seriously be the one to break up with him.

& get tested, well sorry incase he did go farther with her.

well-if he is cheating you would know from what you saw-and like I said-you deserve better. It's going to be hard, but you might want to start thinking of moving on, because the old saying is usually true that "once a cheater, always a cheater"...

I don't want to talk to him. To me, it's over. I don't want to be with him anymore. He disgusts me. I don't want to be with someone who can do something like that to me.

I don't even know who the girl was. I've never seen her before. He never told me about her either. I've met his friends, and I've never met her.

My brother never liked him. He told me he got a bad vibe from him. I never saw it though.

good for you dump his ass and when you get a new bf wholl love you the way you deserve! and make sure he kicks his ass