"Is this cheating?" questions

Why do people ask this? Here's some good questions to ask yourself:

1) How would you feel if your SO did the same thing?

2) Would you feel comfortable doing it if your SO was there?

^ OMG!!!

PERFECT ANSWER!

Whenever people post a question about cheating, I ask them the same questions, only I add

3)How would you feel AFTER you found our you SO did that to you?

4)Would you be able to get past it?

~Allie

What if the answers to all those "how would you feel" questions is:

YES, I FEEL OKAY WITH IT.

Now what? Can you still say there's no cheating at all?

What if the answers to all those "how would you feel" questions is:

 

YES, I FEEL OKAY WITH IT.

 

Now what? Can you still say there's no cheating at all?

IMHO, if you are married, and you don't mind what your spouse does, I think it would not cheating...some people have "open marriages". If it's okay with them, then that's another story.

It wasn't ok with me....

~Allie

I knew a young lady who would have sex with guys, but refuse to fall asleep or sleep over. She would tell her fiance that she NEVER "slept" with another man...

I knew a young lady who would have sex with guys, but refuse to fall asleep or sleep over. She would tell her fiance that she NEVER "slept" with another man...

Are you serious Cam????????????

Define Sk@nk- "a young lady who would have sex with guys, but refuse to fall asleep or sleep over. She would tell her fiance that she NEVER "slept" with another man"

I wouldn't be comfortable if my SO voted for Hillary Clinton...and I certainly wouldn't want to be there....so would that be her cheating on me?

or how about...

if I pooped out what could be considered the worlds largest crap and showed that to a friend of mine for validation...I wouldn't want my SO there and I wouldn't be comfortable with her doing the same thing...so is that me cheating on her?

*btw...if you don't get the poo reference to southpark then please don't be offended, because its actually really funny.

Are you serious Cam????????????

Completely. She had sex with my friend, then told him why she couldn't sleep over. He, of course was crazy about her and didn't know she was still with her fiance until AFTER they did it.

^ Wow...that gives a whole new meaning to the word Be-ach....

I wouldn't be comfortable if my SO voted for Hillary Clinton...and I certainly wouldn't want to be there....so would that be her cheating on me?

 

or how about...

 

if I pooped out what could be considered the worlds largest crap and showed that to a friend of mine for validation...I wouldn't want my SO there and I wouldn't be comfortable with her doing the same thing...so is that me cheating on her?

 

*btw...if you don't get the poo reference to southpark then please don't be offended, because its actually really funny.

BONO WILL NEVER BE NUMBER 2. lol!!

What if the answers to all those "how would you feel" questions is:

 

YES, I FEEL OKAY WITH IT.

 

Now what? Can you still say there's no cheating at all?

Very good point.

When I cheated one of my past partners (and at the time, I slept with many many other people through our relationship), I didn't think the rules applied to me for some bizarre reason. I figured I would never fall in love, so I was simply doing what I had too in order to stay in a relationship. And the guy (and girl) at I was dating seemed to be getting what they wanted out of the relationship.

I felt fine about it.

I think the statement is good, only where both partners have the same ideas about what they feel comfortable with and what they don't. The problem is, people have vastly different ideas on these.