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    m77d77
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    how to kill myself painless

    well im 21 years old and i find out that, the girl that i loved and still love..is going out with another boy, and i cant take it anymore i just dont want to live no more so if some1 can healp me and tell me which is the best way to kill myself


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    Don't kill yourself...
    Live life. Killing yourself will prove that you're a coward.
    No offense

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    STOP!!!! Don't even go there, no one here will assist you in killing yourself.

    There are other choices.... do NOT make the wrong one....

    Things look black right now, I've been in your shoes.... they will look totally different later...

    Call the crisis centre if need be.... don't do this!

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    Wow !!!

    Why would you even ask a question like that ?!?!

    So what if one girl you love doesnt work out , there is obviously somebody else out there BETTER for you !!!

    Dont even consider killing yourself, It only makes you a weak person , Be strong and fight it !!!

    If you were to end your life , do you have any idea how many people you would hurt ? There has to be so many people that care so much about you , who cares about one girl !!

    You will get over her , and find somebody new, It will take time , But dont consider suicide !!!

    Your only 21 years old !! Some people dont even have the chance to make it too 21 , Be thankful you are still alive , Make the best out of the situation , Be the strong one , and act like it doesnt bother you !!

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    I'm sorry...I hate to kick you when you're down, but that is just a terrible excuse to want to commit suicide. I'm sure you're just speaking (or typing) out of emotion. Be stronger than that...don't let such a small, petty thing like a break-up win you over like that.

    Be thankful you're not in a real, serious, horrific situation....like having all four limbs amputated AND being blind and mute (as this has actually happened to a soldier). THEN you'd might want to consider suicide because that life would be unbearable. So there are plenty more people who are/have been in situations much worse than yours (which isn't even bad to begin with) who are and have pulled through.

    Break-ups happen to everyone. Don't get sad over just ONE break-up and ONE girl. Time is on your side. Take a long drive somewhere to think it all out. It does wonders.


    Quote Originally Posted by Atticus90 [Register to see the link]
    Killing yourself will prove that you're a coward.
    Exactly. It's a sign of weakness, and the most selfish thing you can do. You'd taking your own life away from your family and friends.
    Last edited by Puma; 09-21-2007 at 08:05 PM.

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    damn man, if all of us kill ourselves if something dont go our way there wont be any people left in this world.

    people come and on, thats life. there will be someone better, and you will feel silly for feeling this way.

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    well i know all this but i feel hopeless and heartbroke i dont know what to do
    cant sleep cause my heart hurt i cant do nothing ....god help me please take my life

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    Been there said that .

    God isnt going to swoop down and take you away , nawww couldnt be that easy !!!

    Honestly , in a few months , your going to look back at this is realize just how silly you were for thinking it

    Ill give you one thing , you seem like a sweetheart , any guy that can hurt this much over girl , must have something going for them!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by m77d77 [Register to see the link]
    well i know all this but i feel hopeless and heartbroke i dont know what to do
    cant sleep cause my heart hurt i cant do nothing ....god help me please take my life
    A couple comments from the logical side of things:


    1.) No way is truly painless. Even the most peaceful ways of just "going to sleep" and not waking up can backfire, and you can wake up during, and be in serious pain. Failed attempts can also be extremely painful.

    2.) Picture how bad you feel right now. How horrible ... upset ... alone ... confused ... angry ... etc. Picture all of that. Now multiply that by a factor of 10 and that is how you ending your life will make everyone who cares about you feel.

    With you ... it hurts now ... but it'll go away. Cliche', sure, but it goes away ... trust me ... I'm just a faceless internet poster to you ... but I've been where you are, and probably lower, and I'm still here. The good thing is ... after a few days ... maybe weeks ... I dunno' ... you'll start feeling better, and this'll all be behind you. If you cease to exist, all those people who love and care about you have to deal with that forever ... and they'll never understand ... and they'll never get over it.

    You can move on and find another girl to have feelings for ... they can't just go out and get another 'you'.

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    My girlfriend and I broke up about a week and a half ago and i'm not killing myself. There's gonna be more girls out there. Hang out with your friends or something. or talk to someone about your problems. It helps to talk to someone about your issues

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