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Thread: Is it okay to not call your girlfriend everyday?

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    Is it okay to not call your girlfriend everyday?

    I'm at a point in my life where things are just so hectic. I'm doing so much crap and sometimes I just want to come home and sleep. Because of this, my phone calls to my girlfriend are usually always short and uninspired. Plus it seems like I have nothing to talk about when I'm like that.

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    I had an ex that didn't think he had to talk to me everyday, (it really showed me how he truly felt about me) I think at least a little I love you how was your day should be done. I mean if you care about someone at least.

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    You dont have to have an hour long conversation every time you talk, but even just a hey how are you, or just saying goodnight...

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    I think you should call even if it's just to say hello and goodnight. It just shows that you care.

    I for one have major problems when a bf 'just doesn't call'

    I respect him more if he can call and say, "hey ...... blah blah blah, but i just wanted to call . . . blah blah blah .. . but im tired." Rather then him not calling at all you know?

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    Yeah, take the 5 minutes, make the call in the car on the way home. Say I love you and Ask her how her day was. It's worth the relief she will feel.

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    Why not talk to your girlfriend about this? Only she can tell you the amount of contact she needs from you.

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    My boyfriend also didn't call me every day and I hated it. I missed him so I still called him daily but over time it disturbed me more and more until I didn't want to call him as well. It definitely shows you care, even if it's just to say hi. It takes like two minutes.

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    you can always just keep it very brief, also if you don;t want to actually talk then text messages?

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    Some people tell me that I might come off as too clingy because I call everyday. I guess I'll just ask her about it.

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    it won't be clingy if you make it brief. and plus, it gives her an opportunity to share with you about her day. so how could that be clingy?

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