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    Nattie
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    Fun Sex Games/Role Playing?

    Ok..so me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, and haven gotten very comfortable sexually. We have recently become more active in trying to indulge eachothers fantasies...and just be completely open about what we want in the bedroom. We love each other very very much, have a great relationship, great sex, but just like to try new things. We started to try the anal thing...but havent quite been able to do it yet (were working on it tho) but im still trying to think of new things to spice it up. Some of you may have seen my post about having a threesome (im very into trying it with another woman) but there are still some issues with (maybe a slight bit of jealousy...lol) and we have talked about doing it in differemt places that are likes semi public (the idea that somebody could see us turns us both on) but im not sure of other things to try. Everybody talks about the role playing thing...and I want to try, but just think I would feel dumb. What are good situations to role play? One thing that I have always kinda fantasized about (dont think bad of me bc its actually really common) the whole rape thing...well not really rape, because it would be by my boyfriend. but more of a "ravishing me" fantasy if you know what I mean. I guess through all this blabber the main thing I want to know are some good role playing things to try....any suggestions?

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    well not really rape, because it would be by my boyfriend. but more of a "ravishing me" fantasy if you know what I mean
    Yeah don't worry we know what you mean! Might be good, but make sure you have a kind of escape code-word (...as the word "No" or "Stop" or pushing him away might be part of the game). If you guys do this, let us know how it works out! (If you don't mind... obviously don't if you just want to keep it between you and him)

    She told me she fantasised about this too, but whenever I try it, it doesn't really work out... I'm guessing that it's the kind of thing that works in fantasy but not in real life, because it would mean I would have to be totally "selfish".

    One I've always loved to try is if I was working late - everyone else had gone home - and I had a late (telephone) meeting she'd come into the office and surprise me and we'd do it with the phone not on mute! Unfortunately the company I worked for closed down ... Have to get another job...

    Or a lift breaking down and getting stuck! Damn these modern safety standards!

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    I don't know Too much about roleplaying...never been able to get into it too much, and whenever we did, it was somewhat spontaneous. But as for good places to have sex (outside of the bedroom), I started this thread a while back. Maybe you should have a look at it...it might give you some good ideas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nattie [Register to see the link]
    One thing that I have always kinda fantasized about (dont think bad of me bc its actually really common) the whole rape thing...well not really rape, because it would be by my boyfriend. but more of a "ravishing me" fantasy if you know what I mean.
    You say you would like the whole rape thing (i get what you mean) ... have you tried bondage? like handcuffs and things like that? If your looking for different things then try bondage if you havnt ... or i dont know what you or your partner are into or anything but role playing ... put a porno on and role play what you see...

    Just a thought...

    Good Luck.
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    Honest to god I almost choked when I read this-- not because you said "the whole rape thing" which is a little funny to read written out (and I know you mean no offense by it) but because I have this exact same fantasy!

    The problem is-- I seem to only date guys who are very nurturing, caring lovers and want to give me 30 minutes of (kind of boring) oral sex and things like that... and I want to just shake them and be like: You know what you want to do! DO IT!

    Sigh. Let me/us know if you find a way to communicate this with your man and how it went.

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    Quote Originally Posted by valiantv [Register to see the link]
    Yeah don't worry we know what you mean! Might be good, but make sure you have a kind of escape code-word (...as the word "No" or "Stop" or pushing him away might be part of the game).
    Mine and my boyfriend's code word is "banana." When we first started discussing that particular fantasy, I told him that I'd agree as long as there was a safety word. Then, without missing a beat, we both jokingly said "banana" at the exact time. So now, I guess that's our word.

    And as for ideas, we're pretty big on costumes. Schoolgirl, typical dominatrix, etc. Makes it much easier to role play, when you look the part.

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