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Thread: "down there" worries....(it's ugly and not normal!!!)

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    "down there" worries....(it's ugly and not normal!!!)

    i'm not going to go into gory detail, but i just read a post that said women either have a clamshell (where the labia is tucked into the outer lips) or NOT a clamshell (the labia sticks outside of the outer lips).....but what if it is neither of those things?

    does anyone else have a labia that isn't perfectly symmetrical?

    i'm thinking of getting a procedure done to fix it and make it symmetrical because i'm SOO self conscious of it...

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    i mean it's not symmetrical. so one half sticks out but the other half is smaller and stays tucked in lol

    ...sorry yall, i didn't want to have to spell it out like that, i guess it just wasn't clear enough before

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    Originally Posted by aNnAeLiZaBeTh
    i'm not going to go into gory detail, but i just read a post that said women either have a clamshell (where the labia is tucked into the outer lips) or NOT a clamshell (the labia sticks outside of the outer lips).....but what if it is neither of those things?
    Then it is a normal vulva.

    Stop thinking clamshell and not clamshell.

    The fact is that a normal vulva can go from having the labia minora tucked inside of the outer lips all the way to having the labia minora outside the mayor lips.

    Everything from clamshell to labia minora entirely outside of the labia mayora is normal.

    Originally Posted by aNnAeLiZaBeTh
    does anyone else have a labia that isn't perfectly symmetrical?
    Trust me, no vulva is perfectly simetrical. Where did you came up with the idea that vulvas are symmetrical???

    And even if you had your vulva modified to be perfectly simmetrical, it can look asymmetrical depending on what kind of clothes you are wearing, your underwear or the position you were seating.

    Originally Posted by aNnAeLiZaBeTh
    i'm thinking of getting a procedure done to fix it and make it symmetrical because i'm SOO self conscious of it...
    Trust me, no guy cares about the simetry of your labia minora, all they care about is that they are going to have sex with you.

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    lol thanks tod, i actually do feel a little better about the situation...i mean, i've seen girls on porn and they have symmetrical labia. plus, everything else on the body is symmetrical, so why not the down there region? i've been so paranoid..

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    Originally Posted by aNnAeLiZaBeTh
    lol thanks tod, i actually do feel a little better about the situation...i mean, i've seen girls on porn and they have symmetrical labia. plus, everything else on the body is symmetrical, so why not the down there region? i've been so paranoid..

    Have you heard of photoshop???

    Whenever I see a "playboy picture" I wonder how much is left of the original picture and how much was made up in photoshop.

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    more men need to think the way you do...i always get the feeling (and prob because i only ever date attractive, high standard guys) that i HAVE to be perfect and i HAVE to be up to the porn star standard and i'm just not...no one is...

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    hey i'm running to the store real quick, i'll be back in about 15 min. thanks for all the help yall!!

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    I read an article in a recent Cosmo about a female magazine editor who worked for a time with a porn magazine. She said they did a LOT of airbrushing and computer manipulation to get those perfect-looking bodies - yes labia too.

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    Here's a link to an old thread about the same question...
    Clamshell, Not clamshell, and everything in between, it's fascinating stuff.

    What A Normal Vulva Looks Like

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    thank yall SO much for the links, encouragement, etc. it really helped out. that model distortion was amazing!!! i've never seen that before!

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