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Thread: If I am so hot then why don't men approach me?

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    Originally Posted by Altruist
    Littlestar, if that's really you in your profile picture (holding a book) then I can see why most men are intimidated.
    i doubt tommy lee won't take you back again.

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    Originally Posted by ghost69
    i doubt tommy lee won't take you back again.
    =D> hilarious

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    I can't read the whole thread but just from the title I would guess it's either your attitude, posture or the way you rub off on people. Not saying you are but, you could come off as snobby, rich, y, rude, concieted or any combination. This is 1 reason.

    The other reason I could imagine is that maybe guys are intimiated by you. I know that I (as a girl) am intimidated by gorgeous men and would NEVER initiate even a smile or prolonged look. I don't want a man so good looking that he gets that much attention, I just don't perhaps men feel the same way... Just a thought.

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    Originally Posted by Altruist
    Littlestar, if that's really you in your profile picture (holding a book) then I can see why most men are intimidated.
    LOL thats not me in the profile pic

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    It may be just me but I don't prefer to just "approach" girls. I prefer to have something in common with someone first before I get to know her. Eg. through a friend, doing something in common at a club. Unless I'm drunk of course.

    I mean, I guess a guy would worry he comes accross as super cocky if he walks accross the room to hit on someone in broad daylight. Isn't it considered pretty lame to use worn-out pick-up lines?

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    hahaha, if you looked like Pammy I'd be running for the hills!!! (and probably answers your question!!!)

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    Personally, coming from a guy, if your as smoking as you say you are, most men are probably intimidated. It's just rule of attraction. I would say usually (i use usually loosely) relationships are built between people that have equal attraction to each other, more simply put, they are the same "hotness." So, if your really hot, and unless your a player or drunk male, most guys are just going to be flat out intimidated because they see you as really hot and probably think you wont think the same of them. I don't know what kind of girl you are, you could be snobby, or could be very outgoing, and completely unshallow. I would say its pretty stereotypical amongst guys, at least me and my friends, that if i see a really hot girl, she probably knows shes hot, and there is NOTHING worse than a girl giving you the eye roll as you approach her. So maybe you should send off cues, like smile at them, create eye contact, these give guys the heads up that youll talk to them and then you can go from there.

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    [quote=littlestar;2974831]LOL thats not me in the profile pic

    I should haved known that was good old Pam
    Post your pic so that we can really psychoanalyze the reason behind guys' irrational fear of approaching you littlestar.

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    I'm average looking and i get approached heaps. A smile and manners go a long way, so does being REAL.

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    Originally Posted by Altruist
    I should haved known that was good old Pam
    Post your pic so that we can really psychoanalyze the reason behind guys' irrational fear of approaching you littlestar.
    She's on the incredibly cute side of hot if I recall correctly.

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