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Thread: If I am so hot then why don't men approach me?

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    If I am so hot then why don't men approach me?

    I have had this issue for a long time now.
    My female friends describe me as "hot"
    My male friends and people i know well describe me as "hot" but yet no man has ever ever ever dared to approach me.
    Now and then i will spot someone looking at me or flirting with me but that's as far as it goes.

    So my question is if i am so hot then why aren't men approaching me?
    A friend once told me "you're to hot and they feel intimidated by you and they think you're most probably taken by the way you look"

    I totally disagree with her and think that someone being good looking couldn't be a deterent.
    What are your thoughts?

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    I am glad i am not alone in the world. Join the club scorpio

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    hey girls, i'm in the exact same boat. but i think i may have figured it out. personally, i don't like being with a guy hotter than i am, because then i immediately lose the upper hand. if you're with someone a lot hotter than you, then you'll always be wondering if he/she is screwing a serious hottie behind your back. so perhaps guys don't want a relationship because they want to have you under their thumb and they know that they won't with a drop dead gorgeous girl.

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    mmmmm that's a good explanation. I have never thought of it like that.

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    Although it doesn't bother me my boyfriend is hotter than me. Honestly it's no problem to me.

    I remember being on a tram once many years ago with my then boyfriend and these guys were sitting opposite us and they were so rude i wanted to say something but ended up not saying anything.
    As the tram stopped and me and then boyfriend were getting out, one made a comment to the other and said "what the hell is she doing with him? what an absolute waste!"
    The funny thing was i dont remember that they were anything to look at lol

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    and it's not just screwing that i'm talking about. i mean, let's say you're an average looking girl with a HOTT bf. well, when he goes out without you, you would be soooo worried about other girls getting on him and stuff wouldn't you? other girls would constantly be on him and you would probably not be able to deal with girls hotter than you flirting with him. i think guys are avoiding those problems (just the other way around lol).

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    sometimes it is better to let the other person loves you more than you love them. that's why guys doesn't want to be with a person hotter than them.

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    scorpio i always take time to appoach guys now and they are interested for a few days and then drop me lol

    My current boyfriend actually thought there was no way he could have a chance with me and didnt even take me seriously for the first year of our relationship, he thought i was to good to be true. lol

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    yes, exactly. you said exactly what i was trying to say....you just made it MUCH simpler lol thank you, lil kitty!

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    scorpio the nerve of some people hey? really rude

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