h0rnyr0b0t Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months, and we decided to move on to the next step in our relationship, sex. Everything seemed to be going great, I was kinda nervous about my penis size, 5 1/2 ](*,) anyways, after about 4 mintues, i felt like i was gonna cum, and sure enough, i pull my penis out and my condom is filled. is there anything i could do to last longer in bed ? :splat: Link to comment
matius Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 This is a very complicated question. Do you experience on average 4-5 minutes every time you have sex? You know, that sounds quite normal to me... Some people cum too fast at 1 minute, or 2 minutes. This could be classified as premature ejaculation. That doesn't sound like you. Answers can vary depending on how old you are and how experienced you are as well. Link to comment
Gus Almighty Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 Just masturbate about 4 times a day without any lubrication for about a months time. You will desensitize yourself so you dont go as fast. This does work. Link to comment
naughty_jiggidy Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 I think it will get better with time.. My ex had a problem right after he lost his virginity and he just tried to really not think about the feeling, and try to think about... Golf... LOL. and he didnt cum then.. We just kept doing that eventually it was all nighters.. hehe! Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 They make desensitizing condoms and sprays you can put on before you put on the condom. Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 ??? Just masturbate before sex...it'll take longer for you to build back up to orgasm. Link to comment
h0rnyr0b0t Posted May 19, 2007 Author Share Posted May 19, 2007 well we had sex again, i tried thinking about playing game LOL! i also masturbated before we did it, it helped alot. i was in there for about 20 mintues ! =] thanks for the advice guys and gals ! Link to comment
Locke2121 Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 Glad we could lend a hand......er..so to speak! Link to comment
Rabican Posted May 20, 2007 Share Posted May 20, 2007 if you feel like you are getting too 'revved up' stop for a second, or 10 seconds, or a minute... to get back to neutral. when you stop, use your hands, tongue, etc. to keep her entertained. IF she asks why you stopped just say, you feel so darned good, I had to stop before I finished. Also if you work those pc muscles (pretend you are trying to stop peeing, mid pee) if you clench those muscles a lot, and hold them for say 5-10 seconds at a time, over and over... they get stronger... and i guess you can just hold off an orgasm after a while by doing that. Link to comment
Kornheadjugg Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 I'm kind of different, my first orgasm can happen within 30seconds of sexual contact.. But after that I can go 30m-2hours.. And then I can have another orgasm after that... so all in all I can have 3-4 orgasms, but at 3 I'm usually shooting blanks, and my penis is throbbing.. But why do I orgasm so fast? It's weird.... Link to comment
george237 Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 It's all in your head. When I first started having sex I was the same way. Now I can cum when I want, whether it be an hour or 5 min. Link to comment
ryan123 Posted October 10, 2008 Share Posted October 10, 2008 It's all in your head. When I first started having sex I was the same way. Now I can cum when I want, whether it be an hour or 5 min. True dat. Tru dat. Link to comment
robot20 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 Wait till you have sex without condoms, Youll last even less. Well some people do. With condoms i could go for like 15-20 minutes, without 5-15 minutes. If you wanna last longer, take it slow. Take breaks in between to make out or something. I dunno works for me. Link to comment
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