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    The intense stare

    I know all of you have either given it or seen it or heard of it..

    The intense stare, the dear in headlights stare straight into the other persons eyes, the one usually without a smile, the one that goes on for atleast 10 seconds min....which feels like an eternity.

    I think more guys do it than girls? Well, I havent stared at anyone like that unless they initiated it.. dont know about other females.

    So question is...what is the point of this stare? Is it due to the intense attraction, or the feelings for the person? People do it when they dont even know the other person, or hardly much.

    What are your experiences and opinions on this one?

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    Thats the WRONG stare. It should be only about 5 seconds...and the face should always be open and either friendly or sexy.

    Just staring at a person with pure intensity can be put alot of people off. This is usually done by people who simply don't know any better or are just learning.

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    Originally Posted by Locke2121
    Thats the WRONG stare. It should be only about 5 seconds...and the face should always be open and either friendly or sexy.

    Just staring at a person with pure intensity can be put alot of people off. This is usually done by people who simply don't know any better or are just learning.
    LOL now I'm having some mental image of a guy that looks like you, Locke, staring at me with pure intensity from accross the bar... Shudder. Definitely, friendly/sexy is SO important. And I agree 5 seconds is enough.

    (BTW, that wasn't meant to be an insult... You just look like a tough guy. You're prolly a big ol' teddy bear tho, aren't ya?!)

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    In college there was a guy who stared like that at my sister's chest. The next day she found out it was because his contact lenses were bothering him and it hurt to blink or to look straight ahead. You never know.

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    BTW, that wasn't meant to be an insult... You just look like a tough guy. You're prolly a big ol' teddy bear tho, aren't ya
    Care to cuddle me and find out?

    No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.

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    they are picturing you naked. just kidding.

    i do this when i find a woman very attractive or her eyes are just beautiful. i used to do this with my ex all the time. she knows what's up when i do it.

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    Originally Posted by Locke2121
    Care to cuddle me and find out?

    No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.
    Ha, you're my dream dude... Good ol' southern country boy who looks like he could rip someone a new one if they were rude to his girl. Now, if only you sounded roughly like Trace Adkins, I'd consider relocating. Hahaha!

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    Originally Posted by Locke2121
    Care to cuddle me and find out?

    No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.
    HAHAHA! Something about the way that sounds made me almost fall out of my seat. "I'm not a tough guy, I like old people!"

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    Originally Posted by Locke2121
    Care to cuddle me and find out?

    No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.
    what does this have to do with the thread.

    anyways, just stare as long as you want. when you see the person you are staring at grab their drink and aim towards you, stop.

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    Hmmm, somehow I tend to think staring that intently would creep me out. I'd also start to wonder whether the ogler was just weird and staring or experiencing a stroke...

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