The intense stare

I know all of you have either given it or seen it or heard of it..

The intense stare, the dear in headlights stare straight into the other persons eyes, the one usually without a smile, the one that goes on for atleast 10 seconds min....which feels like an eternity.

I think more guys do it than girls? Well, I havent stared at anyone like that unless they initiated it.. dont know about other females.

So question is...what is the point of this stare? Is it due to the intense attraction, or the feelings for the person? People do it when they dont even know the other person, or hardly much.

What are your experiences and opinions on this one?

Thats the WRONG stare. It should be only about 5 seconds...and the face should always be open and either friendly or sexy.

Just staring at a person with pure intensity can be put alot of people off. This is usually done by people who simply don't know any better or are just learning.

Thats the WRONG stare. It should be only about 5 seconds...and the face should always be open and either friendly or sexy.

 

Just staring at a person with pure intensity can be put alot of people off. This is usually done by people who simply don't know any better or are just learning.

LOL now I'm having some mental image of a guy that looks like you, Locke, staring at me with pure intensity from accross the bar... Shudder. Definitely, friendly/sexy is SO important. And I agree 5 seconds is enough.

(BTW, that wasn't meant to be an insult... You just look like a tough guy. You're prolly a big ol' teddy bear tho, aren't ya?!)

In college there was a guy who stared like that at my sister's chest. The next day she found out it was because his contact lenses were bothering him and it hurt to blink or to look straight ahead. You never know.

BTW, that wasn't meant to be an insult... You just look like a tough guy. You're prolly a big ol' teddy bear tho, aren't ya

Care to cuddle me and find out?

No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.

they are picturing you naked. just kidding.

i do this when i find a woman very attractive or her eyes are just beautiful. i used to do this with my ex all the time. she knows what's up when i do it.

Care to cuddle me and find out?

 

No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.

Ha, you're my dream dude... Good ol' southern country boy who looks like he could rip someone a new one if they were rude to his girl. Now, if only you sounded roughly like Trace Adkins, I'd consider relocating. Hahaha!

Care to cuddle me and find out?

 

No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.

Care to cuddle me and find out?

 

No, I'm no tough guy, though at over 6 foot and over 200 pounds, I look it. I'm mean when I have to be, but am actually a quit guy. Love animals, little kids and old people.

what does this have to do with the thread.

anyways, just stare as long as you want. when you see the person you are staring at grab their drink and aim towards you, stop.

Hmmm, somehow I tend to think staring that intently would creep me out. I'd also start to wonder whether the ogler was just weird and staring or experiencing a stroke...

what does this have to do with the thread.

Not a thing.

Good ol' southern country boy who looks like he could rip someone a new one if they were rude to his girl. Now, if only you sounded roughly like Trace Adkins, I'd consider relocating

I can sing...sort of. I was a beautiful tenor before my voice broke. Then 10 years of smoking. I got the Southern boy drawl but Trace's voice is a far bit deeper that mime...sorry.

The 1000 yard stare - born in the trenchs of WWI and perfected during the Vietnam war.

Used by weary soldiers who have seen too much destruction

if you are checking out women @ 1000 yards, you have no game.

if you are checking out women @ 1000 yards, you have no game.

Its when you are looking at something but not actually seeing it. A skill for me born out of years of education. Chaulk boards to overheads to white boards to power point presentations.

Its when you are looking at something but not actually seeing it. A skill for me born out of years of education. Chaulk boards to overheads to white boards to power point presentations.

Why not focus (or not focus, as it were) on a wall or something other than a person? It's the stare serial killers (and awkward nonverbal mis-communications) are made of...

Omg, do I have something on my chin?

you can always just flip someone off. but make sure you laugh like it's funny.

When I really fancied someone a while ago, I remember the most intense eye meet (not quite a stare), which really kind of unsettled me. Not overly long, but enough that it flustered me, and really turned me on. Maybe it was because the chemistry was zinging along between us, so it wasn't forced. I don't know. But I *do* remember that very clearly...Hmmm. Interesting.

i've given some women some intense stares. they usually approach me later like, 'i saw you looking at me.' i usually joke like, wasn't me. that opens up for a huge conversation too.

Hi,

That intense stare is very creepy. I've received them from ex's who I have not seen in a long time before, as well as girls who I didn't know. Without a smile, or any softer features on her face as an expression, and I find it to be unsettling, unless of course I would be plastered at a bar and extremely horny. Everywhere else I would consider it to be rude and creepy, even if the stare means that she already had me undressed and halfway in bed with her - there are other ways of giving off this sign.

By the way, I have no clue what it means. If I had to guess, it's either because:

1 - They are mesmerized by your hotness

2 - They are daydreaming very hard and staring off into space

I doubt someone would look that long at someone if they did not find something appealing about them.

depends on what you are defining the intense stare as. if you are looking at women like you want to ban them to haites, then you shouldn't be looking at women like that.