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Thread: Mental abuse?

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    Mental abuse?

    My ex never hit me or got violent in any way.

    But I have found my self confidence and self esteem was plummeting by the end.

    *He ridiculed my hobbies
    *Would try to make me dress a certain way
    *Told me I was letting myself go
    *Told me he would never do my job
    *Told me I'd never succeed in the field I dreamed of working in because I didn't have the confidence
    *Would ogle other women in front of me
    *Told me he didn't like emotional women (indirectly suggesting I should keep quiet)
    *Wouldn't let me decorate the house in my style

    Mind you he never:

    *tried to stop me seeing my friends or family (although he did complain about them)
    *threatened to leave me or that I couldn't leave him
    *got jealous or possessive

    What do you think?

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    Sounds a bit controlling... Good thing he's your ex

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    Hope you were the one dumping him, he sure was a sore loser.


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