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    Exclamation How shall i know if i am a virgin or no?

    hi guys

    well i want to find out if i am a virgin or no ?
    dont know why am scared but without telling me go to a doctor and all this stuff .. is there a way to find out alone?

    well i know everyone is wondering i had sex or no....

    i didnt have sex but my bf touhed me alot his hands were between my lips (lips down there i mean) so i dont have that much experience thats why i am scared i might lost it


    another question

    i used to shave there and the hair grew now it really itches i have to keep grabbing the hair and putting my hands inside to feel ok :S ! soo i put my hand there alot alot !

    can u help me answering my questions :S

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    Hey broken heart,

    You are a virgin based on your own terms, there is no predefined definition of virginity, it depends on your moral, ethical and religious outlook.

    The only measure that used to be used to tell was the hymen, but it can easily break through other methods, including gymnastics, horse back riding, etc, and not all women are born with a very dense one.

    When you shave down there, it will itch, as you get irritated hair follicles. I suggest using Bikini Zone shaving gel as it reduces the irritation that occurs during shaving. If it's really painful, you can use a topic anesthetic, anything ending in -caine, like lidocaine, ask your pharmacist for a "topical anesthetic." It's over the counter and very inexpensive.

    Hugs, Rose

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    You're a virgin. It takes alot more than putting your hands down there to change that. You'll be a virgin until you do the deed. Not that I'm an expert, but it hurt like a sonuvagun when I did it the first time. No pain=no lost virginity, I'm thinking.

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    z9z,

    How come you keep asking the enotalone board the same question?I don't care that you do but vaginal sex means you're not a virgin.A man fingering you means you're still a virgin.


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    Quote Originally Posted by rose2summer [Register to see the link]
    Hey broken heart,

    You are a virgin based on your own terms, there is no predefined definition of virginity, it depends on your moral, ethical and religious outlook.

    The only measure that used to be used to tell was the hymen, but it can easily break through other methods, including gymnastics, horse back riding, etc, and not all women are born with a very dense one.

    When you shave down there, it will itch, as you get irritated hair follicles. I suggest using Bikini Zone shaving gel as it reduces the irritation that occurs during shaving. If it's really painful, you can use a topic anesthetic, anything ending in -caine, like lidocaine, ask your pharmacist for a "topical anesthetic." It's over the counter and very inexpensive.

    Hugs, Rose
    I agree. something to remember: a doctor cannot tell either way. some women break their hymen doing gymnastics, horse-back riding, exercises, etc... and other don't break their hymen at all, even if they have sex. So a doctor is not the judge of it.

    if you haven't had sex, you are a virgin. however, different people define sex in different ways, ultimately, if you think you are a virgin, you probably are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quietgrl [Register to see the link]
    z9z,

    How come you keep asking the enotalone board the same question?I don't care that you do but vaginal sex means you're not a virgin.A man fingering you means you're still a virgin.


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    If you dont want to answer its okay.... no one asked to say your opinion .. and its up to me i can post whatever i want whenever i want

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    z9z,

    "How come you keep asking the enotalone board the same question?I don't care that you"

    I kinda answer your question for you in a way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by z9z [Register to see the link]
    If you dont want to answer its okay.... no one asked to say your opinion .. and its up to me i can post whatever i want whenever i want

    Technically not really, this forum has rules. One of which is not multiple posting on the same topic...

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    Aquestion pleeeeaaasse

    well i have read about broken heart question and i think she ment that her boy friend used his hands to be entered inside but not that deep to penetirate that area... and she is warrying about losing her virginity and that cove of the woman which when it's cut it's showing some little blood so the virginity she ment is that is she still having that cover ??? or not but in same time his boy friend didn't enter hid penis into her spot ..actually my boy friend did the same to me with his fingers but he didn't enter the * * * * and i aslo want to know if iam virgin or not but i got a feeling that iam still virgin czuse no complete intercourse..would any one tell me if iam true or not ??

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    I've never worried about my hymen or bleeding.

    Has a man entered you with his penis? If no, you are technically still a virgin.

    However, under this definition, homosexuals are always virgins. And a woman could be through 20 different men but only participated in anal sex and still be considered a virgin.

    In my opinion, virginity is a personal feeling. I may have not had sex until I was 20, but I felt like my innocence had dissipated before then. Talking dirty to my boyfriend, giving blowjobs, intimate touching slowly took away my innocence long before sex did.

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