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    oneshygal
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    for men....coworker making a lot of eye contact???

    This guy at work always walks past my office and peeks in to make eye contact a lot. We will hold each others gaze until he completely passes. My mind is going crazy trying to interpret his eye contact. I'm guessing he could be thinking a few things:

    1) she's really cute
    2) why is the weirdo staring at me?
    3) let's walk by her again I can get an ego boost when she stares me down! hahaha!

    If you guys were noticing alot of eye contact from a female coworker you were not interested in,would you keep staring? Or would you try to avoid looking at her as to not lead her on?

    Here's some more info...he once said "hi" to me and I froze, he then another time stopped in front of my door to ask a stupid question and I froze yet again. We do not work in the same department and his office is in the back corner by itself so there's no way for me to do a so-called "drive by" to try anything else.

    Thanks for your opinions!

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    Just ask him out directly in his face. Really there's no doubt this guy likes you. Because if he wasn't interested he wouldn't gaze at you,that's for sure. So well its really now for you to decide , don't waste time tho. If you never respond he will take that as a sign that you aren't interested.

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    Next time he walks by, lift up your hand in a brief wave, and say "hey". He'll either say "hey" back, or he'll stop and say, "Yeah?", and you'll say, "Oh, I was just saying hi...I keep seeing you walk by. Where do you work?" See how he responds. You will have opened the door for him to bust a move with out having thrown yourself at him in case he doesn't dig you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oneshygal [Register to see the link]
    I'm guessing he could be thinking a few things:

    1) she's really cute
    2) why is the weirdo staring at me?
    3) let's walk by her again I can get an ego boost when she stares me down! hahaha!
    4) When is this girl going to give me a decent response so I can ask her out. This is a co-worker situation!

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    Hi, whenever i see women I like I tend to give them eye contact too without even realising it sometimes, I don't know why because im quite shy in asking women out so maybe he's the same, he almost definatly likes you if he peeks in everytime he walks past.

    Respond by giving him a little smile when you have eye contact so he knows your fond, who knows, maybe he'll start something or even ask you out...

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    Am I the only one who thinks staring at a co-worker is creepy?

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    Next time he looka at you give him a nice friendy smile and start up some conversation

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ipso Fracto Man [Register to see the link]
    Am I the only one who thinks staring at a co-worker is creepy?
    Nope, I'd have to agree, that staring can and often times is, quite creepy.

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    well if they stare like this it's probably a bit creepy and it doesn't mean anything good, but if it's more like.. glancing or something, that's a lot better and I would take the chance in that case

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ipso Fracto Man [Register to see the link]
    Am I the only one who thinks staring at a co-worker is creepy?
    Not if the two like eachother, but yeah it's creepy if some icky guy is staring at me. Especially when I'm running errands and I happen to glance around and see some maintainance guy openly staring at my butt with a creepy smile on, as if he'd ever get near it...ewwww...ooops....sorry...rant...

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