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Thread: I love the guy....how do I get him to marry me?

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    I love the guy....how do I get him to marry me?

    I love the guy I'm with, and he promised me marriage once. I wasn't ready, then. Now, I am. And, now, he isn't. HELP!!

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    You can't make someone marry you. And pressuring him for it wont help at all.

    Be patient. If you're meant to be, he'll propose when he's ready.

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    It's supposed to be natural and it happens when it happens.
    If you force it you'll ruin it for yourself.
    Be patient.

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    why isn't he ready?

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    Originally Posted by tuxthecutey
    If you force it you'll ruin it for yourself.
    Agreed 100%.

    I wanted to marry one of my exes, and he wasn't into the idea of getting married. I put so much emphasis on wanting to get married it pressured him into proposing, which was a horrible idea because it wasn't genuine.

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    I agree with the others. If you try to get him to marry you, he'll just end up resenting the idea

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    I wouldn't want to marry someone who didnt want to get married. There'd be no point in it.

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    Does he know that you are now ready?


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