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    He has a small penis, and I feel like a jerk.

    I feel SO shallow writing this
    Please help
    There's this guy I like a lot about but it's LD.. he will be here to visit in a few months. He will be staying with me for 2 weeks.. Because of our feelings for each other I am afraid he will want to do the deed.

    So here's the problem.. He is the smallest guy I have ever seen. I mean it's literally the length and width of a girl's pinky, and that's when hard (we have fooled around before so I know this).. when it's soft it's like it's not even there!!
    I am afraid the sex would be lousy, all my previous partners have been average and most have been pretty big. What if I didn't even feel anything?! I mean, he is literally smaller than a tampon. Sex is very important to me, I enjoy standard penetration much more than say, oral or masturbating... am I making too big a deal out of this??

    I feel like a jerk.


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    No, the length and the width of a girls pinky is sad to say it, but some kind of penile deformation. If you love him enough perhaps you could work it out, but honestly I don't know how great the sex would be, you'd be better off if he used his fingers to penetrate you. I'm sorry, geez that must really suck for him.

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    Sorry but that thread title is slightly ambiguous. (did you mean that pun?)

    Your concerns aren't shallow. Sexual coompatability is important but I guess you won't really know how compatable you are until you get together.

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    eh, ive had this problem, i went from one extreme to the next...was with a guy about that size (pinky) and then with a Ron Jeremy sized one lmao...literally, my friends didnt believe me so i took pics of him, his nickname is now PSD as in Porn Star D...well u get it.
    But the sex with the lil guy was just as good (ok not nearly but it was ok), he knew how to work it...and i tried not to focus on the actual penetration, but the part of us being together. he was very passionate and we just made it work.
    if you like him and care about him, just make the best of it. good luck!
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    n83 - don't feel like a jerk. I totally know what you mean, and it does make a difference.

    I think if you really like him mentally and emotionally, the physical is easy enough to take care of. There are always ways to enjoy the experience for you but it will most likely have to involve toys. I hope you're up for that.

    It can be made all the more fun because he's someone you like.

    I suggest going into with a positive outlook. If you think it's gonna suck, it prolly will. But if you think to yourself, "hey, this could be ok." Than it will be.

    Just have fun with it and him! Best of luck.....

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    I've never used toys ..

    How common is this small penis thing?! I've never heard of anyone having this happen to them before, although there was an episode of sex and the city where one of the girls started crying when she realized while making love that her perfect guy had a small penis ..
    i totally sympathize

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    Its gotta be fairly common. There is an "average" which means there are going to be those who fall below it and those who are lucky to be above it.

    I have totally been with someone who was so small it was weird.

    Maybe you could try the toy thing. Just because you never have, doesn't mean you never will, right??

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    Hey, they make this toy that fits around his thing (looks like a dildo) and it's shaped like the real thing. Its supposed to give him width and length.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doyathink
    Hey, they make this toy that fits around his thing (looks like a dildo) and it's shaped like the real thing. Its supposed to give him width and length.

    hmmmm.........but how is it supposed to feel for him? I mean, are there benefits for him as well, do you know?

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    I don't know, I seen it on a website that someone on here posted the link for. It looks just like one and he puts it on himself so it must feel good to him as well????? It says it adds inches to width and girth! idunno tho

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