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Thread: "I used to like you"..what is the meaning?

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    yeah, it's just all out rude and obnoxious. don't worry about it. people say stupid stuff all the time. it's really obnoxious.

    like just a few hours ago. this guy who asked me out sent me an e-mail. He asked how I was doing. He said he was sick and had to cancel this other date he was supposed to go on.

    Does he want me to send him chicken soup or something? Am I supposed to feel bad for him? And more importantly, does he think I'm going to go out with him after what he told me?

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    Originally Posted by annie24
    yeah, it's just all out rude and obnoxious. don't worry about it. people say stupid stuff all the time. it's really obnoxious.

    like just a few hours ago. this guy who asked me out sent me an e-mail. He asked how I was doing. He said he was sick and had to cancel this other date he was supposed to go on.

    Does he want me to send him chicken soup or something? Am I supposed to feel bad for him? And more importantly, does he think I'm going to go out with him after what he told me?
    Oh man...what a freaking LEEW-WHO-WHOSER...

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    thank you!!!!!!!!!

    Although we haven't met, and yes, people who do internet dating do date tons of people at the same time, does he seriously need me to feel bad about him cancelling his other date?!?!?!

    yuck.

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    Only time I've ever heard this said would be in a casual way, meaning exactly what the words imply.."I used to like you." It normally just means that the person previously had a crush on you or something to that extent, but never made a move. They may or may not still have these feelings. If it is someone you dated saying this, then the meaning changes entirely ofcourse.

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    Originally Posted by annie24
    yeah, it's just all out rude and obnoxious. don't worry about it. people say stupid stuff all the time. it's really obnoxious.

    like just a few hours ago. this guy who asked me out sent me an e-mail. He asked how I was doing. He said he was sick and had to cancel this other date he was supposed to go on.

    Does he want me to send him chicken soup or something? Am I supposed to feel bad for him? And more importantly, does he think I'm going to go out with him after what he told me?
    Sadly...yes very sadly. The very last time I hung out with this girl that is basically the samething that happened to me. It was the last straw.

    She called me and said that her "date" with her ex had been cancelled. OUt of no where, like it was nothing. That knocked the wind out of me, my face turned completely red, the first gut wrench of this whole 10 month healing process. Then she asked what I wanted to do when we hang out since she was on her way to my house. That whole night was torture to keep a content face.

    For me to here that a guy did that to, that mother ******. Yes, he will get his, what goes around comes around. I once read a post about a guy delivered a pizza to his ex, and someone replied that he is not a pizza boy. She has no respect for him for doing that, and ever since then I have decided that you don't have to be there for someone who uses you. Next time they need you to really come through, don't be there for them. People like that make me angry.

    Always the people that care the most get hurt, and the ones that don't care get treated the best. I'm doing the best I can, yea I'm going to be alright..got a job interview coming up.
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    Originally Posted by serenity25
    Only time I've ever heard this said would be in a casual way, meaning exactly what the words imply.."I used to like you." It normally just means that the person previously had a crush on you or something to that extent, but never made a move. They may or may not still have these feelings. If it is someone you dated saying this, then the meaning changes entirely ofcourse.
    exactly, I heard it casually many times where it didn't bother me because I didn't ever have the feeling of attatchment. For someone to say that when they know you were very stongly attatched and you showed them that you were trying to heal yourself by staying away., that is wrong. After all that and they say that, the meaning is different, it hurts.

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    job interview! great! I hope it is not for a pizza delivery job.....

    Maybe my sick guy and your ex girl should be set up on a date.... hmmm....

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    Originally Posted by annie24
    job interview! great! I hope it is not for a pizza delivery job.....

    Maybe my sick guy and your ex girl should be set up on a date.... hmmm....
    No, customer service job, just so I can save some money before I go on vacation, and also for when I start school in the fall.

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    Originally Posted by GottaLetItBurn
    exactly, I heard it casually many times where it didn't bother me because I didn't ever have the feeling of attatchment. For someone to say that when they know you were very stongly attatched and you showed them that you were trying to heal yourself by staying away., that is wrong. After all that and they say that, the meaning is different, it hurts.
    Yeah, hopefully the fact that she could say something so hurtful will ultimately help you forget her. She's obviously not worth your time or attention.

    I second Annie in saying good luck with the interview! I'm sure you will blow them away! (and maybe you will also meet a new, really hot female in the process)

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    Originally Posted by annie24
    people who do internet dating do date tons of people at the same time, does he seriously need me to feel bad about him cancelling his other date?!?!?!
    I know, that is what I hate about Internet dating. It's been my experience that women get tons of email and sometimes don't even read it all. Copy and pasting emails to several people to save time, etc. And people aren't who they say, etc. It's all about picking good guys out of crowds of others and guys doing the same thing...very much a shotgun approach and a bit impersonal I think...

    Yet I've done it a lot myself and have had good relationships come from it...

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