10 signs there is someone else...

can someone maybe sum up some things to look for in your relationship that might hint at there being someone else? Im a bit paranoid...wanna know some definite things to look for...

The main one I think is the the other person withdraws from the relationship in some way, maybe sexually or the amount of time spent together or in communicating etc. or a combination of all.

1. Sudden increase in your SO's energy levels, going to the gym more often than usual

2. Strange shopping behavior, running up credit cards, buying things that are super fashionable and expensive.

3. Change in hair color and overly sensitive skin regiment including tanning.

4. Purchasing new lingerie or underwear

5. Overly excited text messaging & secretive email behaviors

6. Wanting to spend a weekend away with old friends

7. Convincing you to spend more time with your friends

8. Buying a new perfume and or lotions with intoxicating scents.

9. Overly forgiving of your mistakes

10. Acting like they are invincible when before they acted slighly insecure.

bondgirl

LOL...they're all good signs bondgirl. You've given it some thought!

I'm sure there are many things to look for, however once cheated on... most people looking back could see the signs.. or had that "instictive feeling" something wasn't right. Many live in denial, hoping it's not true and I hope that isn't the case with you.

If you're SO acts exaggeratedly affectionate towards you in a certain other person's presense.

Methinks he doth protest too much.

LOL...they're all good signs bondgirl. You've given it some thought!

LOL, melrich... its a road that I have travelled on and one that I hope I will never go down again.