I wish there was a quick and painless way of killing myself.

Even if my condition brought somebody down though it doesn't make any difference, I've never chosen to be like this. I have a mental illness.

A therapist doesn't change the structure of your brain, they give you coping strategies and tasks. After therapy you wont think differently, you'll just have more methods of fighting problems.

A therapist doesn't change the structure of your brain, they give you coping strategies and tasks. After therapy you wont think differently, you'll just have more methods of fighting problems.

By going out into situations and being able to cope in them (which meds and therapy helps greatly) will eventually change the structure of your brain so you can deal with them without meds and therapy. Some people who have SA due to a natural chemical imbalance in their brain will always have to stay on meds I think.

Where's tyler, doyathink and electra anyway?

Well, that's pretty easy for you to say when you're not suffering from a mental illness, just like tyler, this shows you're not very bright and totally ignorant.

 

What do you say to people with depression? Snap out of it you shouldn't hide behind disabilities? Pathetic. *Shakes head*

EXCUSE ME!! It is pretty easy for me to say Ross, how do you know I'm not suffering from a mental illness?? Do not call me ignorant or not very bright my friend....YOU do not know me and you do not know my disabilities.... I will also not accept you calling me pathetic either. No I do not hide behind my disability, I have chose not too. However, you may if you wish.

You think that just because I haven't posted about my disablility that would constitute not having one? Please be careful with whom you judge when you do not have the slightest idea of who they are. Your life story is here, for all to see and try to help, mine is not!

I have not told you my disability because I don't use it and have delt with it.

I thank you for being respectful. I honor you for serving your country, I have as well. I'm sure his condition does require meds, I only pointed out that he wanted them increased to solve his problems. He has pointed out many times that his current lifestyle is not want he wants! How do you know his condition is not affecting his family?

I have also as many others, went through periods of my life lacking motivation, not 30 years though. I do have disabilities and have them under control, I also choose not to seek therapy,not for me

I am not attacking Ross, I'm trying to make him think about his situation and gain some sort of strength for his near future my good fellow.

If you are living off of welfare because you choose not to work because you are just lazy, than that is my tax dollars and I would have a right to speak my feelings.

Your last question As far as how does he affect me? I guess I won't care anymore nor will I post to his threads again. Thank you!

Getting it though seems complicated, unless I pay an escort around £1500 - £2000 to stay there overnight.

Ross, how about you take out an advert. and auction yourself off?

30 yr old virgin going to the highest bidder. Must be gentle since I'm shy!

You can make some money and get it on at the same time!

Hmmm, I don't think that's true.

 

 

 

A car mechanic, a race driver, I dunno.

are you good with your hands? can you take someting apart and put it back together? mechanic or even better, an engineer would be good.

race driver??

I don't think your shyness would allow it, you need to be very aggressive as a driver if you want to win. most drivers started w/ go karts at an early age. btw,I owned/drove 4 semi pro cars.

 

seriously considering joing college and/or getting a job (something I never could have done before),

 

 

planning on asking the doctor to start taking these meds at a higher dose when I next see her.

do you have trade unions there? apprentice schools?

i.e. here you can go to a Union school and learn at an entry level. Construction equipment or driving trucks is always a great paying job.

watch out increasing meds, they need to be at certain levels or the side effects can be bad.

Ross buddy, you aren't getting the answers you want. Why do you keep posting? It's just a game for you I think. You don't want help or answers, you just want something to do during the day.

People here have truly tried to help you in every single way they know how. We're all following your posts, offering as much positive reinforcement as we can, and you aren't taking any of it.

There is no magic answer that will cure your problems. It's you that is the problem I'm afraid.

And while I've been here wasting my time, there have been more other urgent posts I should have been watching. Ones where people are truly having problems in their lives and want help, want to change.

After a few days of following your posts, I'm mentally exhausted. You are completely unwavering in your ability to pity yourself. If you used that energy toward something positive in your life, you would be on the road to success.

I'm really very disappointed to see that you would rather sit on here all day pitying yourself than trying to make it in the real world. It's going to be along, frustrating life for you.

Good luck Ross, with that attitude, you're gonna need it!

*poofs for good from these posts!!!!*

She'll be back. Shes too persistent.

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