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    To those wanting death

    There are so many people who have struggled to survive. There are so many who died and wanted to live. There are so many who would give anything to breathe in the air of summer mornings again but disease takes them away.

    To the so many people who want to die- what right do you have?

    If life is so meaningless to you, start living by your own rules
    If life is so hard, take an easy stroll in the park to watch the skies
    If you have no one, take a look at all the people who need YOU instead... or could if you reached out to them

    Life is what we make it. You don't have to be bound by anything. Those lines were made for us to cross them, to break them, to break free and run

    There is so much one can do to put meaning in their life.
    1. Choose to feel happy even if you dont WANT to
    2. Pretend you already have everything you need to be happy... because the irony in that is that you DO. You wont get more until you learn to use what you already have because everything you get from life, you get from God- they are not separate.
    3. Imperfections are what perfect us. Love your imperfections yet know that they are anything but
    4. Live for the moment. This is the hardest thing for everybody to do with all the standards of expectation said to lead to security.

    If you want to commit suicide, give up. Give up- but no, i dont mean that in THAT way. Give up by stop slaving yourself to life's rules and realize that you live above it. You are made by an incredible God. You have a lifetime to explore but once you are gone, it wont matter how successful you are in certain areas of this life- how many hearts you touch does. If you commit suicide, you will not feel the oneness of GOd ever for you are disturbing the natural order of things.

    This is the most dangerous thing anyone can do.

    So what right do you have... when others have it worse... when you might have what others want... when the only way they can get that from you is if you give to them... you cant give yourself if you are dead. When you are dead, you are only taking yourself away.

    Sometimes endless sleep seems enchanting, but with it comes less control than life gives you. You don't get the option of waking up again.

    Enjoy this life. Dont take it so seriously. Stop placing pressure on yourself and teach yourself to love.

    In the end, this is all that save us.

    God bless.

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    And lastly, very important stories. They will CHANGE you.

    The man with the pitchfork ran in circles. He was being chased by rabid squirrels. If he had a pitchfork... why didn't he kill them, you ask?... because a part of him knew... they weren't really there.

    The toothless man waited. He watched. He wants to eat a carrot. But he cant... but he cant...

    Serena like to sleep on people's lawns and sometimes even their cars especially in the middle of winter. When she was hungary, she would press her face against the window to scare the little children... not to eat them, mind you... but so the parents would throw steak at her to make her go away. Boy, she always got a full meal!

    Like, there was this TOTALLY hot boy who was new at our school and like, my friends told me he was a TRANSFER student. This meant he had to have been from another country, like DUH. So I walked over to him and in a slow voice so he could understand me, I asked, "What.... country....are...you...from?" He answered: "Uh... Here." How stupid of me! He transferred schools, not countries! Like- oh mah gawd!

    Baa! I'm a sheep! runs into the wall as she says this


    I hope these stories have changed you and made you think twice about suicide.

    That is all. Thank you.

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    For more help, here are some Notes to Self:

    1. Try not to cough while drinking.
    2. Never try to swim in a puddle. It just makes you look silly.
    3. On second thought, swim in a puddle. Note peoples expressions.
    4. They will live to regret this. Repeat this aloud as often as possible.
    5. Smirk, as if you know something, from time to time. This will eventually cause people to tell you their secrets.
    6. God is everywhere. This makes for a tough game of hide-and-seek.
    7. Do not run with scissors stuck in your foot.
    8. Chicken soup, although good for colds, is not the best cure for drowning.
    9. Breathing is a good way to avoid blacking out while driving.
    10. In one study, laboratory rats died after 17 days without sleep. Learn from the mistakes of others.

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    So what do you say to those who do not believe in god? Honestly, if happiness were a choice for those who suffer from depression and bipolar disease, don't you think we would have chosen to be happy by now!? I choose to live for the chance that one day this burden will be lifted from me, yet 90% of the time, I would love to just let go and end it all. I'm absolutely * * * *ing miserable and there is nothing I can do to change it because I have tried everything. I cannot choose to just be happy all of a sudden or I would have a long long time ago. This is a curse that I have to live with, my advice to you, is to learn whatever you can about these diseases before you tell someone that "happiness is a choice". Puns like those do not help. Also if God is so great, why does he choose to let us live in misery? Don't get me wrong, I believe in him very much, but I question his motives on why I have to live with this.

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    when I'm depressed, I decide to take HAPPY actions. When you ACT happy, you THINK happy and if you do this enough, you ARE happy. The best way to do this for yourself, is by doing it for another.

    Everything is a choice. They have names for every disorder but it all comes down to your emotional wellbeing and how self aware you are in order to get yourself help.

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    By the way, to those who dont believe in God, I say that I believe in God. Difference in opinion doesnt make me different from you. It just gives us more to talk about!

    See your negative attitude here is a choice and fuels negativity in other areas as well. As for this "depression disease" I had it too since I was like even 5. Then one day recently I decided to stop playing this role and to make myself see what good is out there. With your words up there, you ARE pushing it away and I can even FEEl your anger. From your perspective comes everything else. What is in sight in your life depends on where you are looking.
    Last edited by blueangel; 03-03-2006 at 04:27 PM.

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    My negative attitude? No, I don't have a neg. attitude, because if I did I would be dead already. I choose to live and deal with it. I don't care how happy you think, it doesn't take away the misery people are feeling. Of course I have mania, so tell me what do I do to make myself feel great after a mania episode? How do I prevent them? On my meds, they are not so bad, but without my meds, I'm absolutely crazy. I do things I cannopt control, and then the guilt from those actions makes my depression kick in.

    If I could choose not to have mania and depression I would do so. Unfotunately it does not work that way.

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    God isn't suppose to chose for us how we are going to feel, he can touch our lives but not always in a way we think he would. i too have a depression issue, and nobody should have to live with it but it is just how things work out sometimes. there are many ways to go about it, whether it be by medication or therapy or just surrounding yourself with loved ones, just making a choice of how to do it and how your gonna fix yourself is great in itself. there is always a way to find a way out of that depression disease hole, or whatever may be wrong it just depends on how hard you are willing to try for things to feel better. if little sayings or what not work for someone then that is great don't put them down if it is helping them but not you, everyone is different and it will take different things for different people.

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    I'm not trying to pull her down for it, but she makes these diseases out to be some kind of joke, like its an act.

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    Your words have negativity written all over them. Having purpose in your life, no matter what condition you are living under, leads you to WANT to live. When you reach out to others.. say even children and have others relying on you- you WANT to live. It's a matter of placing yourself in these healthy situations.

    My purpose in life is God. I get depressed from time to time, but I will never be LOST again. that's what I'm saying here. Bad times will never go- bad conditions wont- but who you are inside, your character- that determines more than anything else ever will in your life.

    All for now- I have to go. Good luck to you. Try not to be so easily offended from now on. Instead of going against what I'm saying, add to it. In our words, we both have a ring of truth. See that

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