Lily04 Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Generally if a guy tends to look at you for a bit longer than normal, does it mean he finds you attractive? And if he does this repeatedly, that's a good sign to approach/make conversation? Also, how would you approach a guy who you don't know but just sorta 'click' when you make eye contact? I know some answers to these questions, so I'm sorta playing dumb, but sometimes I like to hear other's thoughts as well. And plus I'm bored, lol. Link to comment
mysterygirrl77 Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 I just posted a thread similar to this only I rambled. Ideally, I think if a guy stares more than normal that he is definitely interested. For some reason I am able to say that to you but yet you can see by reading my thread that I have not a clue when it comes to me. As far as how to approach them, I cannot bring myself to tell to just go for it because I am currently terrified of doing so myself. Link to comment
Lily04 Posted February 19, 2006 Author Share Posted February 19, 2006 Thanks, I just wanted confirmation I guess. I looked at your thread but found it too long & detailed...you should edit it/get straight to the point, and you'll probably get more replies. I used to do long posts on enotalone as well, but found not so many people answered, so it's best to usually just get straight to the point unless the details are really necessary (i.e. your ages, teh fact that you knew his father's friend or whatever isn't that necessary.) Just a tip from what I've learned after probably posting on here too much, lol. Link to comment
mattyj Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 well i would say... smile if you get stuck and dont stop the eye contact. You can look away briefly but then look back and smile. As you are smiling you can say anything like hi. If you come accross confident and just ask any question at the same time, if the person is interested they will stick around i assure you. Be approachable with your smile and energy. Make the person feel comfortable being in your presense. Link to comment
Dako Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 I'd think you're being admired unless you weigh 800 pounds or have a green Mohawk. Link to comment
Lily04 Posted February 19, 2006 Author Share Posted February 19, 2006 Thanks matty. Really great advice. And Dako, I don't weigh more than that or have a mohawk, so it's all good... Link to comment
KissMe_KillMe Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 hahaha id be interested in a green mohawk!!! Link to comment
atraceofblood Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 when I see a girl I like and keep looking at her, I am definitely interested. Actually this has happened to me this past few months where I saw a girl look at me quite often and in turn I have been looking back in interest. I wish it was more obvious, but I guess the best thing to do is drop huge hints like maybe smile a lot or go ahead and start a convo. Link to comment
Echo Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 800 lbs.....Kriced...who could HELP but stare at that!!! Link to comment
whatif Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Guys tend to frequently look at girls who they like. A positive reaction such as a smile or Hi would give a guy the courage he needs to approach you. Link to comment
MrMilk Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Yeah i think if a guy is staring at you a lot then he's into you in some way. But at this point it's only physical (but I guess thats a good start!) I dunno just fan the flame/prod a little - give him a smile or something and see where it goes from there! Link to comment
magnanimus23 Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 You know, we men are easy, if he stared at you, that's it, you just have to smile at him, or just talk to him, and he will ask for your number. Women have it so easy... Link to comment
arcadefire Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 It's normally a good sign if a guy keeps looking at your face (note: not other parts of your body...). It means he thinks you're pretty, etc. Smile or start talking to him. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 OP, did you get your answer 3 years ago? Link to comment
SRTtoZ Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Yes he is SUPER interested. Trust me...we dont stare at fat ugly chicks. Link to comment
DunwichChild Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Unless they have food on their dresses lulz Link to comment
t3nder_v1ttl3s Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 If you catch him looking once and only once I say he may not have been staring at you or he may have been thinking about something and lost in it and happened to be looking in your direction. If you catch him looking at you lots of times then it is a good sign that he might find you attractive. I usually try not to check girls out so obviously but sometimes you get caught and sometimes it’s good that you do. Link to comment
moonlite Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Direct eye-contact is the key. If I like a girl, I will look in her eyes when I am a few steps away from her. If it is from farm, it could be many things.. Link to comment
iLiveWithMyMom Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Thanks, I just wanted confirmation I guess. I looked at your thread but found it too long & detailed...you should edit it/get straight to the point, and you'll probably get more replies. I used to do long posts on enotalone as well, but found not so many people answered, so it's best to usually just get straight to the point unless the details are really necessary (i.e. your ages, teh fact that you knew his father's friend or whatever isn't that necessary.) Just a tip from what I've learned after probably posting on here too much, lol. If guy like girl, guy stare. Guy might also stare if guy have ADD though. Link to comment
iLiveWithMyMom Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Lily04 inspire me with comment. Want to change windbag ways, so me add to sig. Link to comment
BalloonShop Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 This is very simple.. If he looks at you when you a looking away, then immediately looks away when you look at him, he likes you. Most shy guys do this. If you both make eye contact, then he looks away, looks back again, then looks away again, he likes you. If you both make eye contact and nothing really happens, he probably doesn't, but who knows Your eyes gives away a lot about what you are thinking, how you feel, etc. You just need to know how to read it. Link to comment
Organs Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Yes, he is interested. Whether or not he has tact is something else altogether. Link to comment
Pirouette Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 Funny, I've had this happen to me a few times with one particular guy, but he has yet to make a move. We talk casually, but nothing deep. I just don't pay him any mind now. Link to comment
iLiveWithMyMom Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 OP, did you get your answer 3 years ago? Oh... hahahahahahahaha. Link to comment
BalloonShop Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 Oh wow, didn't notice this was made 3 years ago! Someone needs to close this Link to comment
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