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    22 and Never been kissed



    So I am 22, and have never kissed a guy. I fear that the longer I go without kissing someone, the more akward it's going to be... Guys out there- would you think it was really weird to be dating a girl who has never kissed anyone? When the time does come (hopefully soon!!) should I tell the guy I have no clue what the heck I'm doing? Or would that ruin it?
    Thanks for the help!!

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    no, i dnt think u should let him know... just go with the flow and believe it justs happens! im 18 and i just had my first kiss... i dnt know what was goin on but it just happened and it was amazing..!

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    dont worry its ok!
    i never kissed until 20 years old, cause i just didnt want to kiss just anybody, thats how i feel and obviously thats how you feel too. When you meet that special one it will happen (or someone you like).
    You dont need to have skills to kiss and no need to tell them you never kissed. Or, on the other hand, if its someone special, they would feel special to share your first kiss.
    Anyway dont worry, you are special!

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    hey, well i say dont worry about it!! u still have loads of time! some people just "mature" a bit earlier. im all up for honesty, and while were being honest, lets face it: society is a , and if u tell a guy ur 22 and have never been kissed, hes probably gonna get a bit freaked out, so i say just keep it to yourself, and like sweetie33 says, just go with the flow...its almost in our nature to kiss, ull get the hang of it!

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    Seem that only females have answered you so far...

    I'm a guy (I do my best) and I really don't know what you are concerned about. Usually for a guy the concern is that the girl has done TOO MUCH not that they haven't done enough... I have so many friends who get annoyed that every girl out there seems to have slept with football teams and done everything in the karma sutra from cover to cover. A guy (as I'm sure girls do) like to have a sense of sharing something with someone for the first time. I always resented the fact that my ex was not a virgin when I met her even though I was - it would've been nice to share it with her.

    Just relax - not having kissed someone is not a negative but instead a positive. Some guy will get excited about the fact that he was the first person to ever kiss you - make sure you don't waste it on a loser....

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    thanks for the advice, everyone. it really, really restored some confidence that not having kissed a guy doesn't make me the biggest loser in the world.

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    He'll probably think you are just nervous. I wouldn't tell him it's your first kiss.

    Relax and enjoy yourself.

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    viola13, you are no way a loser! you are one in a million!
    when i had my first kiss.. at 20.. i had known the guy for a while and he knew i had never had anyone cause i was serious about this stuff... and when we kissed for the first time i said "that was my first kiss" and smiled.. he knew it but it still made him feel special and he mentioned it after years cause he loved it..
    anyway.. take everyones advice and relax.... the most important thing... dont feel like a loser!!

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    viola,

    You are not a loser, not at all. I'm a guy and I like the idea that a girl hasn't been kissed yet at 22. It took me until I was 22 and a half to kiss someone, and my best friend also at 22 hasn't kissed either. There are guys in this position who would love the idea that you would be sharing your first kiss together. And even for guys who have kiss, it would be flattering to know that you waited for the right person, and it was them.

    Not having kissed isn't something to feel ashamed about. It happens in its own time. Important thing is that its with the right person, and if you don't feel the right person has come along, then don't feel bad about not kissing. It will happen and it will be great. And don't worry about not knowing what to do, its all natural.

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    i think its cute, faithful, and beautiful of you of not being kissed yet, because you can save it for that special someone

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