Ask For Advice
Page 1 of 9 1234 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 82

Thread: 22 and Never been kissed

  1. #1
    viola13
    Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    new york
    Age
    32
    Posts
    5
    Gender
    Female

    22 and Never been kissed



    So I am 22, and have never kissed a guy. I fear that the longer I go without kissing someone, the more akward it's going to be... Guys out there- would you think it was really weird to be dating a girl who has never kissed anyone? When the time does come (hopefully soon!!) should I tell the guy I have no clue what the heck I'm doing? Or would that ruin it?
    Thanks for the help!!

  2. #2
    sweetie_33
    Member sweetie_33's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Posts
    169
    no, i dnt think u should let him know... just go with the flow and believe it justs happens! im 18 and i just had my first kiss... i dnt know what was goin on but it just happened and it was amazing..!

  3. #3
    whatfor
    Member whatfor's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Posts
    224
    Gender
    Female
    dont worry its ok!
    i never kissed until 20 years old, cause i just didnt want to kiss just anybody, thats how i feel and obviously thats how you feel too. When you meet that special one it will happen (or someone you like).
    You dont need to have skills to kiss and no need to tell them you never kissed. Or, on the other hand, if its someone special, they would feel special to share your first kiss.
    Anyway dont worry, you are special!

  4. #4
    PersonalMe
    Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Posts
    120
    Gender
    Female
    hey, well i say dont worry about it!! u still have loads of time! some people just "mature" a bit earlier. im all up for honesty, and while were being honest, lets face it: society is a , and if u tell a guy ur 22 and have never been kissed, hes probably gonna get a bit freaked out, so i say just keep it to yourself, and like sweetie33 says, just go with the flow...its almost in our nature to kiss, ull get the hang of it!

  5. #5
    Lacuna
    Member
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    Melbourne
    Posts
    22
    Seem that only females have answered you so far...

    I'm a guy (I do my best) and I really don't know what you are concerned about. Usually for a guy the concern is that the girl has done TOO MUCH not that they haven't done enough... I have so many friends who get annoyed that every girl out there seems to have slept with football teams and done everything in the karma sutra from cover to cover. A guy (as I'm sure girls do) like to have a sense of sharing something with someone for the first time. I always resented the fact that my ex was not a virgin when I met her even though I was - it would've been nice to share it with her.

    Just relax - not having kissed someone is not a negative but instead a positive. Some guy will get excited about the fact that he was the first person to ever kiss you - make sure you don't waste it on a loser....

  6. #6
    viola13
    Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    new york
    Age
    32
    Posts
    5
    Gender
    Female
    thanks for the advice, everyone. it really, really restored some confidence that not having kissed a guy doesn't make me the biggest loser in the world.

  7. #7
    Tigris
    Silver Member Tigris's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    England
    Age
    52
    Posts
    3,490
    Gender
    Female
    He'll probably think you are just nervous. I wouldn't tell him it's your first kiss.

    Relax and enjoy yourself.

  8. #8
    whatfor
    Member whatfor's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Posts
    224
    Gender
    Female
    viola13, you are no way a loser! you are one in a million!
    when i had my first kiss.. at 20.. i had known the guy for a while and he knew i had never had anyone cause i was serious about this stuff... and when we kissed for the first time i said "that was my first kiss" and smiled.. he knew it but it still made him feel special and he mentioned it after years cause he loved it..
    anyway.. take everyones advice and relax.... the most important thing... dont feel like a loser!!

  9. #9
    ShySoul
    Silver Member ShySoul's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2004
    Location
    Where love guides our hearts and actions
    Age
    33
    Posts
    5,230
    Gender
    Male
    Thanked
    1
    viola,

    You are not a loser, not at all. I'm a guy and I like the idea that a girl hasn't been kissed yet at 22. It took me until I was 22 and a half to kiss someone, and my best friend also at 22 hasn't kissed either. There are guys in this position who would love the idea that you would be sharing your first kiss together. And even for guys who have kiss, it would be flattering to know that you waited for the right person, and it was them.

    Not having kissed isn't something to feel ashamed about. It happens in its own time. Important thing is that its with the right person, and if you don't feel the right person has come along, then don't feel bad about not kissing. It will happen and it will be great. And don't worry about not knowing what to do, its all natural.

  10. #10
    FamousAmos
    Member FamousAmos's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Age
    24
    Posts
    129
    i think its cute, faithful, and beautiful of you of not being kissed yet, because you can save it for that special someone

  11. 01-17-2006, 08:25 AM

Page 1 of 9 1234 ... LastLast
Top Threads
Some help ladies
What does it mean when a girl shows a lot of hope for us and verbal effection but then I break trust and now she says she only liked me but now the
Found intimate pics of bf on Internet
Hi, I've been with my guy for 5 months but known him much longer. Overall he treats me well and is a good guy but I keep finding things about him
New girlfriend has a history of serial cheating and promiscuity.
Hi everyone. So judging by the title of this threat you’re probably thinking “obviously don’t get involved with this girl, you’re just begging to be
My boyfriend of almost 3 years has been lying the whole time.
I don't know what to do, or how to forgive him. We have been together for almost 3 years. We have been perfect, we have a 1 year old little girl
Boyfriend of 3 years is blaming me for his smoking
Hi everyone. First a little background info on the situation: We're both 26 and we met 3 years ago online (not on a dating site) where we maintained
Not being "too" available.
I posted a few days ago about the younger guy I've been dating for 6 months and how he doesn't want to use BG/GF labels. I got some great feedback
Jealous of my boyfriend's wild past
But not exactly how you would think. I've made my peace with his sexual past, it's his "fun" and wild past that I can't get over. My boyfriend

online counseling
Featured Threads
Ugly pictures
We had a professional photographer come in at work. I used the photo and put it on my dating profile. But when my Roomie saw it,she said take it
Not being "too" available.
I posted a few days ago about the younger guy I've been dating for 6 months and how he doesn't want to use BG/GF labels. I got some great feedback
I am having difficulty accepting my boyfriends bisexuality for no reason
So here goes; the main reason why I got this account here is probably because I am so ashamed of myself and that because I am surrounded by either
relationship advice
hi... I'll start by saying i'm a guy, i just really needed a woman's point of view for this, so i hope you can help me! My mom is paying for my
Seeing ex tomorrow..so confused. Need advice!
Hi everyone. I'm really confused with my ex. Dated two years; he was very hurt by the breakup. He hasn't dated many people, and I was his first
Needing advice and/or support with ex girlfriend
Ok. Long story short... I ended up in a serious relationship with my best friend of 7 years. The last 3 years of which we were in a serious
I really need some advice and a outside opinion
I really don't know what to do ... My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year now she is no longer attracted to me but tells me she loves
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •