"Friendship", huh?

Glad I found this website to release my frustrations...

My summer relationship ended with my ex admitting that

he met someone else , but did'nt want to lose my friendship.

I don't make it a practice to be friends with ex-boyfriends.

I was hurt, but I was open and willing to try because he was

honest and I truly enjoyed his company.

He called before the holidays, just to catch up. Nice boost.

I felt good...I still crossed his mind sometimes.

He called last week to tell me the girl is nuts and it's over.

I laughed and said it was kinda hard to feel sorry for him.

We laughed and joked about his drama.

He asked me to dinner, I agreed, but he had to cancel and

asked for a raincheck. It was no surprise to me.

This tells me I'm still infatuated. I'm disappointed in myself. I definitely don't want to be the "rebound girl".

I don't expect to hear from him soon, but just in case, What do I do?

DON'T have sex with him or make out with him or make yourself easily accessible to him. He broke your heart once, he'll do it again.

Leave it alone.

I agree with venus777.

Actually, don't answer the next call.

My guess is that it's a comfort thing (his body, voice, old memories, random happiness,etc)

Keep sucking it up. You're not infatuated. Just pulled back a bit.

Good Luck!

Thanks...I'll try to stick with the disappearing act for awhile.

You're right, it is a comfort thing...I'm putting on a good front,

but I think he knows I'm still vulnerable.