nikki blu Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 Glad I found this website to release my frustrations... My summer relationship ended with my ex admitting that he met someone else , but did'nt want to lose my friendship. I don't make it a practice to be friends with ex-boyfriends. I was hurt, but I was open and willing to try because he was honest and I truly enjoyed his company. He called before the holidays, just to catch up. Nice boost. I felt good...I still crossed his mind sometimes. He called last week to tell me the girl is nuts and it's over. I laughed and said it was kinda hard to feel sorry for him. We laughed and joked about his drama. He asked me to dinner, I agreed, but he had to cancel and asked for a raincheck. It was no surprise to me. This tells me I'm still infatuated. I'm disappointed in myself. I definitely don't want to be the "rebound girl". I don't expect to hear from him soon, but just in case, What do I do? Link to comment
venus777 Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 DON'T have sex with him or make out with him or make yourself easily accessible to him. He broke your heart once, he'll do it again. 1 Link to comment
Setter5 Posted January 15, 2006 Share Posted January 15, 2006 Leave it alone. I agree with venus777. Actually, don't answer the next call. My guess is that it's a comfort thing (his body, voice, old memories, random happiness,etc) Keep sucking it up. You're not infatuated. Just pulled back a bit. Good Luck! 1 Link to comment
nikki blu Posted January 15, 2006 Author Share Posted January 15, 2006 Thanks...I'll try to stick with the disappearing act for awhile. You're right, it is a comfort thing...I'm putting on a good front, but I think he knows I'm still vulnerable. Link to comment
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