porn -why do they look?

LoL! So true ! I'm a women that likes it rough . But is more experienced than a porn star!

Lol then you should start making your own porn videos. Better videos, sold for cheaper... you will be rich in no time lol.

I love watching porn! I could watch porn all day and be masturbating at the same time!

omg, u2? i've done it. nothing wrong with it. it's to literally get a 'rise'.

omg lol what has this thread come to? haha

This is one of those topics where everyone's personal reality is the reality they stand by

 

If you think it's wrong due according to your values and morals, then stick to that and find someone who is compatible with you in that area.

 

On the other hand, if someone enjoys porn, they should find someone who doesn't mind it as well.

Seriously, why is this so hard for people?

porn -why do they look?

B/c its funny as heck!

porn -why do they look?

 

B/c its funny as heck!

lol. i love the story lines. that's why i watch.

This thread rocks I give this thread 5 freakin stars! Heck yea!

lol. i love the story lines. that's why i watch.

 

Right, and guys read playboy for the great articles too right? JK

Right, and guys read playboy for the great articles too right? JK

they have articles?

um yea! Playboy isn't just for that u know?

arg!!! what is with males and porn????? I think that if you love someone you will not be wanting to look at someone else's body and lusting over it. I think it is just wrong no matter what....

so because a guy is in a LTR with someone, they are now all of a sudden not interested in sex/beautiful bodies? The guy is still human and still has desires. You can't just shut down human nature and who they are. Thats absurd unless of course it affects the relationship, then of course it is a problem.

The more I think about it it's very GROSS! Come on! Nasty! What was I thinking of when I posted the above post.

i think porn is great. the real thing is best of course. is the real thing gross?

Porn and guys go hand in hand. Sorry for the bad pun, but its one of those things that you can never really change about a guy. As long as guys have a functioning hand, they will masturbate. And as long as there is porn, they will watch it. Its in their nature and there isn't much you can do. I say if you can't beat them, join them. Let him watch it. Be the "cool" girlfriend. Cuz really, he's never going to stop watching it so you might as well be cool with it.

Besides, porn isn't about lusting after another girl/person its just a visual aid to help him masturbate. So don't take offense to it. He's just relieving so stress. =)

I dont think watching porn is a bad idea. It can help "inspire" something new in the bedroom.

And I usually watch it with my boyfriend....

I dont think watching porn is a bad idea. It can help "inspire" something new in the bedroom.

 

And I usually watch it with my boyfriend....

so true! It can give u pointers in a relationship. Help spark up the relationship even spice it up some. so really it isn't a bad thing . NOW here is when it is a bad thing : WHEN THERE WATCHING IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE THAT ISN'T U AND THEY ACTULLY PERFORM IT !

I'm honestly not sure why you posted here. It seems like more of a rant than searching for advice. I mean, you asked why guys look at porn, but then told them not to give you any answers. Personally, I think that your attitude is completely unrealistic. Males are far more sexually oriented than females, and the fact that they look at porn doesn't have to be a reflection on you at all. It doesn't have to be an issue unless you make it one. If you are looking for a man who will not look at porn during the entirety of your relationship, I say good luck to you and be sure to read up on castration before you commit.

Aside from my own opinions on the subject, I really haven't seen the point in opening a discussion board, immediately stating that you don't want an answer to your question, and tuning out any advice given to you. It seems to me that you should just continue set in your ways without asking for help if you aren't going to be taking it.

Woman do it too... just in a different way.

They do a lot of things that hurt us, and we try to control them and stop them making whatever it is worse... or we try to support their interest... also making it worse.

What makes a relationship great, what makes a relationship work... is respect and love.

You treat that other person as good as you can, and you let them be themselves. If you don't like a part of them. (There will always be something) You let them be, and don't make it part of you or your problem.

..if the good out weighs the bad. You stay in that relationship.

But if the bad out weighs the good you leave.

If someone is making you feel guilty for something you enjoy doing, they are using emotional poison to control you. Their pain is only being presented to you so that they may control you, and stop you from enjoying what you enjoy.

Think about that the next time your girlfriend cries because you look at porn. Think about the way you act like a big cry baby, when she leaves you at home all weekend when she parties. Yes maybe you trust her but... you are going to try to control her.

If you love someone and enjoy having someone in your life, you must let them have their pleasure, or it will not work.

Yes it is very sad that internet porn is so readily available, and has tainted so many men.. but we enjoy it.

And no sane man would not respect the wishes of his spouse and not do it if he truly loves her.

I respect my soon to be wife, and I don't do it, but that doesn't mean I don't like it.

So basically, what I am saying is... If your BF wishes to look at porn... DO NOT.. Make it your problem. AND do not support it. ((unless you actually REALLY do like watching it))

Watching it with him will ruin your relationship. You will get self esteem issues. You will do stupid things. Unless you actually find pleasure in watching it, but if you don't.. being the "cool" gf can be traumatic.

Most men will rather have sex with you when you are around, and will never turn you down for porn. If this is happening, then he is not interested in you sexually. He only uses you to fill a void.

You can't be in every area of someone's life. A good relationship is... one with 120% trust. On both ends.

Good luck to all.

I'm so glad I've never been with a woman that has such mad notions about relationships and porn. It would drive me absolutely crazy and I don't even look at porn all that much.

arg!!! what is with males and porn?????

It exists...so somebody is paying. Demand= Supply

I think that if you love someone you will not be wanting to look at someone else's body and lusting over it.

Then you will have to date Blind men only.

I think it is just wrong no matter what. there is no "its all a prefrence" if my boyfriend looked at pron I would feel betrayed and that would hurt me more than anything in this world.

Blind men don't look...

to feel that he felt he wanted/needed to look at another womans body, and that hurts. I dont care what guys say to defend their behavior. or girls who look at porn for that matter, it is just as wrong as sleeping with someone else.

Some made for TV shows are just as suggestive...

it hurts you just as much. and it is just another sick escuse to lust after other people while with someone..

Blind men...that is the answer.

and I have never heard someone in a LTR say "oh the thing that keeps us together is his/her porn sites"

Probably not.

and another thing that is lost in this is trust...

If he LIED about looking at porn...could be.

if I lose my trust in my significant other, I have nothing left....

This much I can agree with.

I don't like porn either