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    stinky pre-cum?

    I need help. I want to give my b/f head but lately his pre-cum has smelt horrible. I can't bare to even have my head down there at all. What is wrong? Why does it stink?

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    There are way too many factors to list that would cause someone to have a foul odor from their ejaculate. I would venture to say at the very least it may have to do with what he is eating/drinking.

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    Is is his precum or just bad hygiene?

    Maybe he has an infection? I recommend you get yourself checked out too - it may be a yeast infection or an STI, and you may be transferring it back and forth.

    It could also have to do with his diet - that can alter taste and smell. But rule out health issues first...and it's sensitive, but you have to bring it up with him.

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    Have him get checked out- just to be safe. Does it look any different? Is the consistency different? If so it could be the signs of an infection.

    Also- the saying "you are what you eat" has some truth to it.

    Coffee, garilc, onions, fish- thay can all affect the taste....If he's eatign a lot fo those foods , it could be a factor.

    Have him eat some pineapples.

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    Well its same the consistency(sp?) He has great hygene, he is obsessive compulsive about hygene and everything else for that matter

    and he pretty much been eating the normal stuff, no onions, no fish(hates it) So I dunno. How do I tell him that he has stinky pre-cum?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarChica
    Well its same the consistency(sp?) He has great hygene, he is obsessive compulsive about hygene and everything else for that matter

    and he pretty much been eating the normal stuff, no onions, no fish(hates it) So I dunno. How do I tell him that he has stinky pre-cum?
    Veeerrrryyyy gently. He may resent this, but just give him some room and just try to be understanding that some men feel like they are judge by their package.

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    link removed - Sort of relevent, but I doubt helpful.

    link removed - a little more helpful.

    On a more serious note - Do get checked out to be on the safe side.

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    I would tell him that you are concerned because you know him very well, and you've noticed a difference in his semen lately. Tell him it smells different than usual-

    He'll likely ask you what you mean by "different". Here's where the wording is VERY IMPORTANT. (I suggest abandoning the word "stinky" in your response) Tell him you have always loved the way he smells and tastes- but that lately his semen has had a stronger, bitter smell. Tell him you think he should get checked.

    This a very sensitive topic so don't mention it WHILE you are being sexual. Mention it when you are together and relaxed, either holding each other, etc. I've found that tough topics are always easier if you're hugging and have positive body language. You don't want to embarrass him. You also don't want him to think you find him gross. So when you say it- say it as someone who's concerned for his health- don't make a huge ordeal out of it and act grossed out- but stress it enough so he'll be serious and get checked out.

    I hope this helps,

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    Yea i figured how i will tell him but its trying to describe it is the difficult part, And its only the pre cum that smells, not the semen, that smells well the way it usually does.

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    Well the purpose of precum is to clean out the urethra before the semen comes out and to neutrailze the the pH of any residual urine so the sperm do not get affected by the toxicity of it whiel traveling through the urethra. So chances are the new smell you are noticing only in the precum has to do with his urine changing.

    What you eat and drink can affect your urine. Is he on any medications? Taking antibiotics can change urine significantly and give it a much stronger odor....which might affect the precum since it cleans out urine.

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