I found in my roommate's collection a book called Mars and Venus Starting Over. Although I feel I'm over the relationship that brought me to this site a year ago, I read half of it last night (it's a thick book, but quick read). The guidance it offers on healing and the emotions that are healthy is awesome.

I recommend this book to anyone hurting and wondering where to pick up the pieces.

Just a note: I know there are many Mars and Venus books out there, I read M and V on a Date and didn't like it, but I found this helpful.