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    Boyfriend - teen porn advice, internet advice

    Boyfriend - Teen Porn, Computer Advice Needed Post: 1 | Quote:

    I thought my BF and I had sorted out this porn thing, but I do look on his computer to see if he still looks at teen porn. I found a hidden file called lolitasworld and it had his name a the start - email removed There is a date of late April sometime. He found that I had been looking and said that I had accidently planted the cookie there from previous searching. I couldn't have as the date is late April when we were apart.
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    It was probably still there from the last time you did it. Are you aware that
    cookies can refresh themselves? That would explain the date. In any case, it
    can't have been me, because I've NEVER surfed that site. Only you have. So
    you're one up on me.

    These are a few more of things he said:


    - BTW, I have
    discovered that the cookie is usually (though not always) named after the
    currently logged-in

    - That's because it's a #!%! cookie! They are stored in a system folder, which is by its very nature hidden. You appear to know just enough to be dangerous, but obviously not enough to interpret your findings correctly.

    I am 35 and BF 37. I am attractive and have a nice body. I said to him I can't handle him lusting after young bodies. The quotes I have here from him are from angry email replies. Does anyone know if what he says about cookies is right?
    Thanks in advance to all replies.
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    He has issues.

    Cookies do not refresh themselves, it leaves a trail after the user visits a specific site. The only way it will refresh itself is if you go to that site again. That's how cookies work. I'm sorry but he's lying to you.

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    I'm not an expert on web page design, but I'm fairly positive that cookies only overwrite themselves when the original page is revisited.

    He's obviously lying to spare your feelings and to avoid conflict, but he's lying to your face nonetheless. It's up to you to decide how to deal with it.

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    The name at the beginning pete@ is put on there because that is his computer name (windows XP does that part) the rest is the domain of the site. Yes, you have to visit a site for the cookie date to be reset... he is lying but so would I just because of sheer embarrasment.

    Probably 90% of men with a healthy sex drive look at internet porn weather out of bordome or to relieve stress when your not around. If that is the biggest of your problems together I would be thankful and just leave it at that. You don't have to approve of it, just don't try to pin him down about it... you will just push him away.

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    Probably 90% of men with a healthy sex drive look at internet porn
    That is a very big statement. In one sense I agree, most males have looked at porn at some stage in their lives but most men grow out of it, in my experience with myself and friends in the early 20s.

    However in this case i think the poster is talking about looking at teenage porn and the site she is talking about "lolitas something" is obviously from the title to do with very young girls.

    I definitely do not think this is something she should just accept.

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    Your right, probably only 50% of men look at legal porn on occation. If he is looking at girls that look like they could be under age that is bad.

    Since I am only 27 I can imagine that when I am older I will probably loose interest, especialy if I am happy with my sex life.

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    I don't think porn is a big problem in itself - but I would be a little freaked out by him fascinating about teen porn (obviously depending on the age!)
    He is obviously a little ashamed of it to lie to you! Have you confronted him again about it?

    So can you delete cookies? Ahhhh I have been searching my ex-boyfriend on the internet just out of curiosity as he is a professional sportsman and just wondered what he was up to - can I be tracked - if so how do I delete the websites I visited?

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    you can be tracked, but you can also delete cookies. But why would you? It's easier just not to browse anything suspicious..

    I don't recommend anyone to delete any tracks you leave - truth always comes out.. and you'll have to explain out the hiding too


    Take responsibility of your actions, think before you act.

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    He should learn to delete cookies, or get some of that clean-up software.

    Also, I'm no expert (really, I swear), but the "teen" porn is mostly college aged girls, some of whom appear very young (unless he's looking at illegal stuff, in which case expect the FBI at your door before too long). What red blooded male is not interested in hot college girls?

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    You are not alone

    Just wanted to let you know Moonglow that you are not alone. I am a 48 year old woman who has been married for 4 months. My husband is 47. This is the second marriage for both of us. We have known each other for about 2 years before getting married and also lived together. I knew that he looked at some porn, at that was ok. We discussed it and told him that I really didn't like it but I understood if he had to sometimes. Well did I get a shock when I was cleaning the computer and found a file with all of these web sites that he has been at. They are all teen porn web sites. I feel so stupid, disqusted and worthless. We had a very good sex life until recently when he slowed up a little. We talked about this and how hurt I was. I went on these sites, and yes I know they are legal, but they are dressed to look like they are 14-15. I was shocked and-don't get me wrong. I am no prude. I just couldn't believe it. I don't know if I can get over the fact that this is what he enjoys looking at. Kids. I could have handled it better if it would have been what I would consider an adult. He says that he will never look at these sites again but I also know that he has been doing this for a long time. I think my marriage is in serious trouble. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.

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