Camilla95 Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 My crush texted me a couple of days ago and we just started talking non stop for two days. Today he hasn’t text me at all.. he kinda drops hints that he likes me but I’m unsure, and I haven’t came out in the open to tell him that I like him really. He are mostly good friends.. help me !!! Link to comment
maew Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 My crush texted me a couple of days ago and we just started talking non stop for two days. Today he hasn’t text me at all.. he kinda drops hints that he likes me but I’m unsure, and I haven’t came out in the open to tell him that I like him really. He are mostly good friends.. help me !!! Leave it be Camilla... you need to remain high value and confident. Show interest in him without being a stalker about it... if he is interested he will pick up the play and run with it. In the meantime, go on about your life and do all of the things you would normally do that attracted him to you in the first place and for the love of god.... stop being so available to him! Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 Perhaps he's all talked out and tired. Give him space. Back off. Don't burn each other out. Establish good friendship first without hounding each other. Give each other breaks which is healthy. Whenever there's excessive communication or correspondence, you'll be perceived as desperate, needy, clingy and insecure. Remember to be independent because independence is mysterious, alluring and very attractive. Don't make yourself too available. Too much familiarity breeds contempt. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 I think he ran out of things to say. Marathon texting sessions will do that. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 A crush is not a bf or a date. It's a boy you like but who only likes you as a friend. Even using the term "MY crush" is a little creepy, as if you're an item.My crush texted me a couple of days ago and we just started talking non stop for two days. Today he hasn’t text me at all. help me !!! Link to comment
TeeDee Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 You cannot build a relationship with a device in your hands stop trying. Make a plan to meet up. Only assess your relationship based on your in person interactions not texting. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 Why don't you drop him a line this time? If he initiated last time, he might appreciate you doing the same. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 Relax and do your own thing with friends. If/when he texts you again, say "instead of us texting non-stop lets meet up somewhere" and see what he has to say about that. Link to comment
YouCanDeleteThisAccount Posted September 7, 2019 Share Posted September 7, 2019 Relax and do your own thing with friends. If/when he texts you again, say "instead of us texting non-stop lets meet up somewhere" and see what he has to say about that. I'll go with this. Stop texting. Let him know, clearly, you want to go out. Link to comment
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