donniebb

I have dealt with scars for nearly ten years. My recommendation is to go to a dermatalogists and he/she can go over your options. The bad news is your scars will never go away 100%, the good news is you can minimize them. I have recently done a medium chemical peel and that has helped also injections of a chemical somewhat like botox. depending on how deep your scars are, you have various options. The bad part is that none of these procedures are covered by insurance and that most cost alot. However, it is important that what ever procedure you choose, you go to a licencensed professional. You can research that on the web. Hope this helps

I can relate to what your going through. My ex got married a year and a half after our breakup (we were together for 7 years). From my own experience, I can tell you that the best thing I did for myself was break all contact with him. Is his marriage a rebound? Who knows, and only time will tell. But life is short, and it is time to focus on myself. What I'm saying is that it is time to consider you. What your ex does is her problem, not yours. Your problem, is how to get on with life. Yes it is painful, but trust me--it gets better, the hurt does eventually go away. But you need time away from your ex (not even a phone call), and you need to focus on you (hobbies, school, date, etc.) Hang in there, you'll be ok!!! _______________________________________ But in the end, it's only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines it will shine out the clearer. --LORTT

The issue of trust might not have anything to do with you. She might have been burned in the past and maybe just finds it hard to trust in general. As far as how to get her to talk about it, be honest with her, tell her how you feel. Sometimes I find it easier to get someone to share with me what they feel by giving a little of myself. In other words, if she won't talk about trust. Maybe bring up a situation were your trust in someone was broken, let her know you've been there and can understand. Maybe in giving a little of yourself, she'll feel more at ease in talking about the issue. Also, trust is something built one step at a time, by actions not words. Show her she can trust you, don't just tell her she can. ________________ ~Some think it's holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it's letting go. ~

My suggestion is to talk to him. Let him know how you feel, and take it slow. If you rush back into anything, the relationship will only fall apart again. You also must do one more thing, and this is probably the most difficult step: to forgive and let go of the past. This is probably why your holding back. You might have forgiven him but you have not let go. You need to start with a clean slate. I know its risky...but love is a risky business. You've just got to decide if he's worth that risk!!! Wish you luck ________________________ Faith dares the soul to go farther than it can see

I hope you enjoy going out with friends, sleeping and having time for yourself at this present time. When this baby comes, it's all over. This baby deserves more than what you could possible give at 13, have you considered the ramifications of being a mother at your age? Who's gonna buy the food, clothes, etc? Where's the money coming from? Are you and your boyfriend gonna live with your parents till your 18? What happens at 2 am when the baby's screaming and is hungry? You obviously aren't prepared for this!! Being a parent is a 24-7 job!! That means not going out with friends, because you've got to take care of the baby. That means getting a job, so the kid has food on the table and clothes on his back!! Have you thought of adoption? Being a parent means giving love unconditionally by putting the well being of your child first. This child deserves better. You couldn't even remember a conversation with your doctor. How are you going to remember feeding times, etc. And just in case your thinking that I have no idea what I'm talking about, my sister got pregnant at 16. I know what I'm talking about!!

My ex boyfriend and I dated for 6 years. About a year ago I broke it off. I needed time to figure out who I was and wanted out of life. In that time I realized he was the one for me. I know that he truly loved me. Yet, about seven months ago he started a long distance relationship. The see each other on weekends here and there and their relationship is mainly online. He says that this is the love of his life and he is going to marry her next year (she is moving down in a couple of weeks to be with him). I still talk to him almost every other day and see him once a week. I realize that I was the one who made the mistake, yet I don't know how to get him back, or if that is even possible. Any advice would be great. Thanx