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You're probably one of those students who would always get "FANTASTIC/EXCELLENT/Smily Face stickers in elementary school. Than you would get to hold on to the hot fuzzy toy every other day for being great in class.... I dont think you're the only one in this situation. I myself, had some trouble starting out college also. In high school in many ways, its just going to school, go home and there's food already prepared for you and everything is within a hand reach... When your in college, you have to do more things for yourself, this includes yourr own laundry **EEWWWW**, food, etc. This consumes more time.... Yes! AIM is a disease, its an addiction, its a choice you have to make. By that i mean WHO??? should you talk to, and whois a waste of time??? obviously none of them are a waste of time, thats why're your talking to them. BUTTTT that is the fine line between being addicted or not. Good luck with college, and I hope you get more check plus than check minuses.

Being nice isn't always the best answer. You meet friends and loose friends though being nice. Like you said, some guys interpret being nice as flirting. Some guys may assume that you feel something for them thats why your'e being nice. These same guy will be so shocked when you tell them that you already have a boy friend. It might seem that you're playing with their heart. They might end up disliking you, or not look at you the same way.

So once your in college you can basically be friends with people of all ages, you can be freshman and be friends with someone whois 30.... My GF is a freshman in colleges and she still likes to talk to younger guys who are in middle school and lower classmens .... I can understand if they were friends in high school while a junior or senior ..... thats a different story ...... My GF is a fresman in college, and some 8th grader boy hits her up on AIM and she talks to them like they know each other yet they dont know each other in real life ...... I know that for a guy whois in college and talks to girls who are like 15 year olds are like internet rapist ...and its just sick because they cant make friends their age .... can this be compare to girls ???? maybe hearing your feedbacks and concerns will help .