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  1. HEY. I see u speak very highly of this man, and im sure thats not one sided, im sure its the same feeling 4 u 2. RIDE, see where it takes u, if your honest with yourself about the situation u cant go wrong. Its all about being able 2 accept NO just as well as we accept YES................... And sweetie if it was just a booty call, U WOULD KNOW, AND WOULD NOT BE ASKING ANYONE ELSE UNLESS U WERE WAITING SOMEONE 2 LIE 2 U IN RESPONSE............................. And if its gets 2 the point that u just CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE hell take a chance TELL HIM HOW U FEEL, at least youll know where u stand, u feel me? Look at it this way he can only do 1 of 2 things A)say YES and sweep u on your feet, or B) say NO and try 2 make u understand why u and him cant be.....................think about it keep in touch, let me know how it goes P.S. GOOD LUCK
  2. HEY HONEY, READING YOUR POST REALLY STUCK 2 ME BECAUSE THE 1st THING U NEED 2 KNOW IS THAT YOUR IN CONTROL OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP, (meaning) AS LONG AS YOUR IN CONTROL OF NOT ONLY YOUR FEELINGS , BUT YOUR ACTIONS AS WELL, TRUST ME U WILL NOT BE IN JEAPORDY OF LOOSING YOUR FRIENDSHIP, EVEN THOUGH U FEEL LIKE U LUV THIS GUY, IF HE'S REALLY YOUR FRIEND THAN THATS JUST THE BOTTOM LINE, U NEED 2 GAIN CONTROL OF THE FACT THAT, U DONT NEED 2 BE W/HIM, U JUST WANT 2, AND WANTING AND NEEDING ARE 2 DIFFERENT THINGS, BUT WHAT U DO NEED IS YOUR FRIEND, DONT LOOSE THAT 4 ANYTHING CAUSE GOOD FRIENDS R HARD 2 FIND............. AS FAR HAS HIM HAVING A SELECTIVE MEMORY (HA ) ITS OK, LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS MAYBE THE TIMING ISN'T RIGHT, LIKE U SAID HE WAS UNDER THE INFLUENCE, SO MAYBE HES JUST NOT READY 2 ASSUME HIS TRUE IDENITY JUST YET AS FAR AS SUICIDE...PLS. I KNOW EXACTLY HOW U FEEL, CAUSE IVE BEEN THERE, BUT LET ME TELL U LIFE IS SO MUCH BIGGER THAN THAT...SO BE EASY THINK POSITIVE....TRY AT LEAST GO AHEAD, MOVE OUT TAKE A CHANCE, GET OUT OF MOMS HAIR AND TRY 2 BUILD A BETTER RELATIONSHIP W/HER FROM YOUR NEW HOME.... WELL GOOD-LUCK ANYWAY, REPLY 2 MY MESG, LET ME KNOW HOW THINGS TURN OUT
  3. My husband and i have been to gether 4 about 1 year, im 3yrs. older than he is, and boy what a difference that makes, anywayz we jumped the broom in april, and it seemed like heaven, but now a little more like hell. He has since then become very abusive physically, as well as mentally, and yeah he did show it before we married, and its not that i thought that i could change it, but more like i could luv him better than anyone prior to me, hoping that he wouldnt respond 2 things in such a negative way, but boy talk about back firing, not only does he disappear 4 4/5 days at a time, but when does finally reappear he gives me bogus excuses, and when hes gone there is a lost of communication because he tends 2 turn his phone off 4 days. The worst part about it is that he trets me w/no respect, calls me names, ive caught him cheating w/ numerous women, which if he does even metion me its just 2 warn them that im "crazy"? whatever?, but he tends 2 think that because were married that we are binded 2gether 4 life, and its just to the point of no return its like im stuck in the twilight zone, we dont sleep togehter and when we do decide 2 (2x a month) its disguting, like he raping me, i luv my husband very much, and i definitely didnt marry him 2 divorce him, but i have actually strted the divorce proceedings and have one year left 2 file, dont get me wrong, im not saying that he doesnt luv me but, he definitely not in luv w/me, cause he doesnt even know the meaning of the word, its more like obsession, stalking, and the crazy part is that i know 4 a fact that he sleeping w/ other women, and honestly hoping that being that thers a 99.9% chance that we will never be right that 1 of these women would just take him awat from me, because other than that he will never leave me and im stuck 4 life..............deep isnt it?........so please if u have any good words of advice, or just wanna talk im damn sure crying out 4 help....................................................
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