Huntress0527

Hey that's alright it feels good to let it out. I know we remember the bad things people tell us. I remember when I was at a 7th grade dance and a boy just came up to me and said, "You know what? You're ugly." (I mean who just does that unless you're an insignificant speck) I replied, " You're not so hot yourself." He walked away. Even then I had confidence but it still makes you question- Am I really ugly? I was always a little overweight until recently (putting it back on now that I'm preggers) and it never really stopped me from attracting all sorts of guys from down to earth good guys to gorgeous ones. I can safely say my husband is both What your parents did was heinous and they were very wrong for saying those things about you. Have you brought this up to them when you gotten older? No child should feel like their parents think they are ugly. You are a product of them so guess what if they think you're ugly then they are too. Looks can only take you so far but it's the substance on the inside that really counts in the end when it comes down to meaningful relationships and just being an overall decent human being. What you look like on the outside fades in time. You have to own who you are and know that you're awesome. At least, that is how I think about myself.

Jumping in here hope you don't mind! Are you able to workout at home instead of belonging to a gym? If finding a ride is difficult that may be an option. I actually enjoyed working out at home and still try to when I can. It's very sad that people have called you ugly! You are unique and special. Don't feel insecure about the ex. Who's he with? YOU not her.

Sorry to hear you aren't feeling well today. I don't know how you can stay on and type! Migraines are no joke. Feel better!

Yeah I have also had them as a child. I remember being 10 years waiting for my aunt to come pick me up from school. The teacher had to sit me next to an open window because I almost passed out from the pain in addition to the nausea. The problem is when a child has them adults seem to downplay it like you aren't in pain or you're too young to get headaches. My fiance has stated he has had them so badly where he would just touch his hair and be in agony. His mom gets them at least once a month and has to be in a total pitch black cool room. My mom is on medication for them. I've already had an MRI done last year and nothing was found (thank goodness). I understand how you would feel guilty I probably will too but it's not your fault. We have no control over genetics.

I also suffer migraines as well as my fiance. Both of our mothers suffer from them along with my aunt. So they run in both our families, I already feel badly for our unborn children because they'll probably have them as well. Mine are also usually stressed induced and it's the most awful feeling. I take mostly excedrin which usually does the trick but I do have imitrex for the really horrendous ones. Massage is excellent but you MUST drink at least a bottle or two of water afterwards. If you do not then it can bring on a headache, it does for me. I also went to school for massage therapy and they stress how important drinking water is afterwards.