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  1. I get the feeling he's not very interested. BUT, if it's true that he's going through a lot and needs space, then all you can do is respect that. He knows where to find you if he wants to. Meantime, carry on with your life.
  2. OP, be very careful not to shoot yourself in the foot here. Don't smother. It eventually backfires. I agree 100% with Batya's post above. Please read it and take note.
  3. I would not put up with his verbal abuse. He's showing you who he really is, and sorry to say, it's not very nice (imo). He won't change - this is who he is. The longer you stay, the more it shows him that you allow him to disrespect you and verbally abuse you. You have choices. Show him you have some self-respect and leave, OR, show him you will allow him to treat you badly and stay. Choice is yours.
  4. Sounds to me like for her she views you as a friend, someone to hang out with. Nothing more.
  5. I'd leg it. You can't trust someone who lies like this and without trust, you have nothing.
  6. Or maybe the girls are wondering why you don't talk much, so they feel they have to keep it going? What do you think OP?
  7. Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. (Hugs) xx
  8. You're an amazing woman and strong. Sending you tons of cyber hugs (((((((((hugs)))))))) 🌹 and fingers crossed it has positive results. 🫰
  9. The moment one partner wants children, and the other is not keen about it, that right there is an incompatible partnership. Also, she's already a mother and also older. Although woman can of course still have children at that age, it does come with more risks the older they get. In general, it sounds to me like you're way more into her than she is into you. Maybe time to re-think where this is heading.
  10. Can members please refrain from arguing and debating one another. Thank you.
  11. My concern when it all comes down to it, is how short a time it has been dating him. 6 months is nothing really and then add to that an unplanned baby, - I can't imagine it all ending in a long-lasting, successful relationship. It's very rare. Not saying it can't happen, but it is very rare (imo). As to what people think: Being human, people WILL talk. It's what they do. There may be the typical office gossip, the typical "shock/horror" of family/friends etc etc. It is what it is and not much anyone can do about it. It happens. Whatever you do now, will be between you and Jerry. The two of you now have a new responsibility to focus on. People talking? Yep. But you can't change that.
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