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  1. Even though it started out super hard, he stalked me, tried to harass me into contact, all that good stuff, I have been happily NC now since July 17th of last year. You can do it guys.
  2. Day something or the other, haven't been in contact since July.... I had to change my cell phone number again. I stupidly thought I'd text him to let him know I got the check he sent for money he owed me. I wanted to make sure his bank account had the money so I didn't overdraw him because it had been a few weeks since he sent the check and he doesn't have much money. Strictly business and no plans to chat. I was being nice when I shouldn't of. Well, weeks later he starts sending random texts. I am not interested in talking to him so I blocked him. He found a way to go around my block and texts me again multiple times, all the while I am not responding. I can't believe he bypassed my block. Multiple times. For random stuff I never answered. Never again.
  3. I deleted the text without responding and blocked him on my phone. Whew.
  4. Ex contacted me today. There's been NC since July and I'm in a happy relationship with somebody else. He texted asking "Do you ever think good things about me?" I'm too nice. i'm tempted to write back. But I know it won't do any good. Somebody please talk to me....he's so good at manipulating the situation....
  5. You will get through this Icyness. We're all here for you to lean on! Just don't give in! I was where you are now....the more I gave in the more power he had over me to hurt me and boy did he use it! Cutting communication is key in moving on. I had to change my number, email, etc. because me not contacting him wasn't enough- he'd contact ME. Stay strong. Cry it all out. At least you're crying in the peace of your own home, and not in front of him giving him more power over your emotions. Day 52 for me!
  6. Day 34. He has stopped trying to contact me finally because frankly, I cut off most of his avenues. Of course he could send me something in the mail, but he has wised up to the fact that I am done with his games and left me be. Yay!
  7. Day 20... I will NOT contact him ever again. My promise to stop to my loved ones is more important than satisfying some curiosity I get.
  8. Day 10. Feeling great. No stress or drama that he loved to force into my life. Just peace.
  9. Day 6. Changed my number. My service provider only blocks people for 3 months and then you have to remember to block them again. Too much hassle. Now he has no way of contacting me. And since I had it changed due to harassment, the $15 phone number change fee was waived.
  10. Day 4. Not feeling angry anymore. The desire to unblock him and yell at him has lessened.
  11. Day 3. He has nothing to offer me. He is a loser, selfish, manipulative, and emotionally abusive. I deserve ( and have found) better.
  12. His last actions were such a slap in the face that I am livid at him. I want to unblock him to give him a good verbal tongue lashing. (but I won't)
  13. Day 2. Everything is blocked so I can't even check up on him. Even so, I will be going into the cell store and changing my number on Tuesday. I just never want to have contact with him ever again. I was lying to myself to believe there was even a shred of hope that we could ever be friends again. I don't need people like that in my life.
  14. I'm starting again. The divorce was finalized and things seemed pleasant so I unblocked communication and thought I'd stay nice and be friendly. Why did I think things would be different? He hasn't changed at all; it only took him 10 days to flip out full scale again and call me a monster, cold, heartless, and "detached like a psychotic person". Apparently he "never liked me as a person" either. I am so tired of the emotional abuse and manipulation. No more nice SD. I'm legally divorced and in a good relationship with an awesome man. I don't need ex as a friend, he's poison. Day 1 here. Re-instated the block on my phone, deleted the email account he contacted me on (he does not know what my new email is), blocked him on Facebook and MySpace, and blocked any websites I'd be tempted to visit and check on him at. I'm not his momma. She's his partner in manipulation after all. I'm so done, time to focus on the good people in my life.
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