4dogs
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Well today she keeps writing derogatory things about me on the internet and stopped by without warning to drop some stuff off. If I hadnt found the stuff in my mailbox I would never have known she was here! She probably expects me to call her.
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day 4 Ugh TODAY I feel like crap. Last night I woke up having a panic attack...very scary. I hate this.
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day 4 I feel so much better today. It really does get better and better everyday.
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Man it feels amazing to actually not respond. Seriously, all of you people breaking NC should try it! Haha I really am amazed about how GOOD I feel...from not saying ANYTHING!
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Yes I think you are right. The only thing that was making me think twice was the idea of being polite about everything and not wanting to come off like a jerk. Bu I told her do not speak to me until there is no other guy and I meant it. Maybe I should suck it up and keep doing what Im doing.
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Oh, and might I add that this is the THIRD TIME she has contacted me after I told her not to!? So much for her movin on, huh? Well I cannot do the same, I am determined to stick with this until she flat out says I WANT YOU I WILL CHANGE I AM SORRY. And maybe at that point I just might say no
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day 3 She emailed me happy easter, and as much as I want to I feel I should NOT respond. Good choice? Bad choice? Help me out here!!!
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day 3 Today is going to be hard. Easter, I always spent it with her...I wonder if she misses me...
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well, it doesnt really upset me because I think they are all being completely realistic...no one is saying she definitely will, but being that she is having such a hard time moving on and has already contacted me...most people are being very optimistic. I just have to remember to take everything with a grain of salt. I still believe the odds are in my favor, but its going to come to the point where I decide if I still care.
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day 2 eh, I feel alright today. Im able to stop checking her AIM profile and trying to see her facebook and whatnot. In the morning though I always, ALWAYS feel like * * * * . Its just hard not thinking that she is going to realize and come begging eventually because that is what EVERYONE around me is saying... If she does, Ill be prepared to tell her what I need to say
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day 1 I woke up feeling like * * * * , missing her so bad. I still think she is going to call very soon as she did not respect my wishes not to contact me last time anyway. I give it till about sunday! When she calls, I wont pick up. I will try my BEST not to. But how is flat out ignoring her the best way to do this? Wont she get angry?:sad:
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well i DID end up talking to her today but she kept bringing up being angry about me making these changes about myself AFTER the relationship ended. She contacted me, I did not call her. At the end of the convo she told me she still likes this guy and that is where I told her once again Please do not contact me for a while.
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that is some of the most insightful and best information i have heard from anyone so far. seriously, thank you.
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Im gonna give it another go... I miss my ex dearly and am still madly in love with her and everything about her. She left our 3 and a half year relationship three weeks ago but we just stopped talking last sunday...she contacted me today and wanted to be friends, but i told her i will not talk to her until this other guy she likes is out of the picture. She contacted me even though I told her not to last week but I thought maybe her feelings had changed. I was wrong she LOVED me, but LIKES him. will NC giver her the time to realize what she lost even if i specifically said not to speak to me? I am not ONLY doing this to get her back...this is for me to heal but giving her space to figure this out is also a motivation for me.
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Getting back together really does happen!
4dogs replied to wishingonastar's topic in Getting Back Together
My grandmother and my grandfather broke up for about a year back in high school. Didn't speak for a year, saw other people, thought they had no feelings for eachother, AT ALL! He called her up one day and asked her to the movies and that night she ditched her rebound guy and they have been married over 40 years now.