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well at times i feel like shes always busy with other people(godbrother, sisters, etc) Sometimes i would ask her to send me some pictures over the webcam of her smiling with her new braces. She said no. And i found out from a friend that when he asked her she sent it. I feel really left out sometimes, when she doesnt talk i ask her why and she says she cant concentrate. But with my other friends i find out shes talkin to them and even helped one of them with hw... i feel like she wont give me the time of day. I dont know anymore. I feel so left out. How do i get her to give me more attention. (long distance relationship) Almost all the talkin would be online... and i have no idea what shes hiding or anything.. i feel so lost plz help. Thanks for putting up with this. 8)

i know theres goin to be many other girls in the future, but i wanted things to work out with this one. We had an argument 3 nights ago because my best friends girlfriend told me that she used to tell him things like "i love u" when they were together. This was after we broke up. I confronted her and she said she didnt know what love meant back then. I was really hurt becaused she told me the same thing and now i found out she didnt mean it back then. So i asked " if u didnt kno what it meant back then, what makes you think you know what it means now?" She says things that makes me thinks shes tellin the truth and i want to believe her but its hard for me to trust her. She has kept so much from me... she said she didnt remember sayin it. My best friend told me that she lies a lot but when i told him i believe her when she says she doesnt lie. The way i look into her eyez...how could a girl like that lie? why would she lie to me when im honest with her. Sure we argue a lot because of the lack of communication. But i just dont know what to do. Im having all sorts of mixed emotions. Sometimes she tells my friends she cant call because of long distance. Well she came back for the weekends and she havent had any contact... she said i was her first priority. Not beinga able to call from long distance is understandable, but shes in the city and probably out with her best friend again. I feel like shes playin me for a fool. I have no way to find out if shes lying or not. I just want her back. Is it normal feelin this way?

Hey all, this is Shy again... well, some of you guys might kno from my other posts that i have a long distant relationship (2hr drive). And well.. im only 14.. my girl and i argue a lot over stupid things and most of the time she say it hurts her but she doesnt see that im hurting also. I was her first boyfriend and she told me she loved me before we broke up.. she got with a few other guys and did not tell me about it. She even got with one of my closest friends and i recently found out from his current gf that my baby told him she loved him too... when i talk to her about this she told me she didnt even remember.. that seemed to be a lie. She said that she didnt know the meaning of love until a year after that. But for some reason i feel really hurt and we argued about this. I might be the one always bringing up things that will lead to an argument... i dont know why that is but i think its because she has kept a lot from me... i love this girl with all my heart. We both have given up chances for other relationships just to keep this going. She doesnt call me either... she tells my friends im too good for her and she cannot make me happy, i dont get it. I want things to work out so bad. If she says she loves me like the way i love her i would want us to build a stronger relationship where distance is not a thing. i want her to be committed but the past DOES bother me. How can i get over the past and everything she kept from me? i feel like shes been lyin to her and myself. Shes very outgoin and shy when it comes to being intimate. I love her a lot and want her to be happy. I was told from my friend that she cried everynight for me. I have trouble believing this but at times i feel the same. I want us to connect to each other, be honest, and become devoted. This is the girl of my life... but if she didnt kno what love meant then.. How do if she knows what it means now?

i really need advice.... plz leave a reply... nething helps

my girl and i have a long distance relationship, we arent "officially" together but yeah... we both love each other and only have one person in our minds. So i dont get to see her much like once every 2 months and im surprised it has gone this long... weve known each other for 2 years en been in love for about 1.2 years. And well i sometimes talk to her about what we would do when we actually get to see each other... she is a rather "shy" person on her point of view. I ask he questions and she always seems to respond with "it depends." So i ask myself... when is it the right time to do things? I love her w/ all my heart and she tells me the same, but sometimes i dont think she really means it... were only 14 but i can say... whatever i feel for her is genuine. Sometimes it feels like we cant chat and i really miss her... its just sometimes when she says stuff its not what i expect and want to hear... so ya any one can help? and advice on touching/kissin in a romantic way is also needed. THANK YOU ALL !!!!!! =]

My ex and i have been broken up for over a year... were still madly in love with each other but she moved this summer and i dont get to see her often. We were suppose to get back together but things kept coming up and now were so far apart. She said that distance is a problem for her and she wants me but she cant be with me. She told me shes suffering from not being able to see me and shell be suffering even more w/o seein me as a BF. I dont understand what the difference would be if were together or not. Why would she miss me more then she does now? I feel like im losin the love of my life, im freaken out. Sometimes i just dont feel like living w/o her... someone help me.

GL duncan haha work yo magic homie.

Well if he really likes you he would appreciate anything you do for him. In my honest opinion, do whatever makes u feel good and it'll make him feel the same way too. That or you can always ask him about his turn-ons.

Yup my ex is very shy, and even when we were alone she was very nervous so i had to make the moves. But when we talk about it online we can take it to another level, but in person its just a matter of how much her nerves kick in. So try to calm her down and make it easier for her before u do anything. GL-deuce

Well my ex moved to another city last summer and we still keep a good relationship. But the thing is that when we talked about gettin together, she told me she missed me a lot but would be hard for her not being there with me everyday. So she told me to wait a bit longer. she didnt want to cry over me (being as her b/f) every night missin me more then she already does. Maybe its hard to keep a long distance relationship, but patience is key.

OK, thanks you two. But any advice on what i should do since we are so far apart? And most of the talkin we do is online so i really dont get to hear her say things for herself.

wow that sounds like my ex and i. We argue a lot for stupid reasons and we bring up some old memories that we never got over... so i find myself in a position where i am also seekin advice. Its true we love each other a lot and she lives pretty far. But i truly do miss her and i'd wait till she gets back. GL with ur relationship with your new "friend" and your ex also. Keep it true. Keep it koo

My ex and i have this pretty good relationship. she lives pretty far from me, like about a 2 hr drive away. Anyways i was chattin with her online and i told her i wanted to french her. She responded with, "but u didnt LOL." So now im eager to see wut i can do. =) But im still not sure how and what i do with my hands if i wanna get pass second base? I dont get to see her often so i want to make my time memorable with her and she is very shy. Girls would u tell me what u think. Ps: She tells me she loves me a lot.

I fell in love at age 12 almost 13, we're still in love now at age 14.5 =)