Johnny_has

I got out of a relationship about 4 weeks ago with a girl who was beautiful and we were going out for about 5 months. Anyway my problem now is comparing other girls I meet to this ex. None of them are close to her in the looks department at least and I fear that I lost one chick I was truly physically attracted too, the rest don't hold a candle to her. Since the bar has been set so high now, I'm having girls not competing on par with her... I can't get over it, I feel I lost one of the most beautiful girls ever and will not be able find anyone to match her physical traits. I'm not shallow, her personality was great too, I don't think I'll do that good ever again!

Thanks Avman. I'm allergic to Ibuprofen though, irritates my stomach and makes me nauseous, so that's a no no. I've been taking these 2000mg doses for about 5 days now. Hoping to stop soon though once my wrist feels better. So 2000mg still in the safe range if I don't take it for too much longer? I've seen some tablets with Naproxen but they have some pseudoephidrine in them and my body get's over excited from the latter so that's a no go zone too.

Get in a min of 1 gram of protein for a pound of body weight and 2-3 grams of carbs for a pound of body weight. Good Protein sources = fish, chicken breast, steak, eggs(remove yolks full of fat) Tuna Carbs sources= Oats, rice, potatoes, pasta. Stay away from high sugar carbs, alot of these new cerals are high in sugar carbs. You don't want to much of that. The complex carbs I listed above have practically nil sugar in them. Good luck. Stick to 6-10 reps to gain "size".

I have a wrist injury buy my doctor won't prescribe me stonger meds. I find taking 4 Tylenols 500mg each(we call Tylenol paracetamol here in aus) eases the discomfort somewhat. Anyone know how much Tylenol you can take in one go before it becomes dangerous? Thank you. P.S. I'm 6'2" and 195lbs if that helps. Cheers.

Well I'm no chick, I'm a 21yr old male. Here's my 2 cents.l No you shouldn't. Let me tell you this though, If she has a very high interest in you, she'll most suggest doing something again sometime. Haha yeah, it's a nice/strange feeling... don't act on it though, don't call her every friggin' day and say how much you miss her. Only use the phone to organize dates. Don't chit chat on phones, leave the chit chat til the date. How much should you *think* about coming over or how much *should* you come over do you mean? Obviously it sounds like she's on you're mind 24/7. Again not everyday. I usually lay off the contact for 3-4 days before I set anything up. Good luck. Remember, don't let that desperation seep throught or she'll go running like the wind

Well I'm a part time pot smoker, but I knew one old friend that was a daily smoker for 5 years. He too gave up smoking just recently. I noticed with my old friend is that he when he stopped smoking completely he became irritable and didn't know how to occupy himself. It depends though, is he a heavy daily smoker? Everyone is different. Cannabis isn't physically addictive but it can cause psychological addiction with some people. I suggest you just praise him every now and then on how it's good to see he's making a move towards a healthier life style. "How long do you think it will take for him to be off it completely?" Who knows, depends on his willpower, some people give it up easily, how bad does he want to quit? "When will he not crave it?" Again, if he's been smoking heavily for awhile, it may take a while before the cravings to end. He needs to find some replacement activities to do instead of puffing the chronic.

Haha yeah well I think you should just play your best, but that's just me. I'm really competitive and give it 110%. I never lose on purpose. I don't care if I'm playing videogames with kids in hospital who have leukimia I'll play to win wether you're black, white or diabled. Girls don't like it when they know you've let them win. Although, if you do win, you MUST be GRACIOUS about it and DON'T rub it in their face. Now go out their and whoop some a..!

First off welcome to enotalone "A". Trust me, if the guy is into you how firm your breasts are won't matter. Anyway every guy is different. I myself don't mind the big saggy breasts, no joke. I know other guys that like them droopy too. If they're making you THAT uncomfortable, by all means, see a plastic surgeon(very $$$ though) Sex IS going to come up oneday though. Just give it a chance and see how guys respond... I'm sure your mind is making it out worse then it really is though.

Hello, First off are you really 54? Wow you have to be the oldest person on here. You have a good 33 years on me. No offence meant. Back to the matter at hand. I don't think they were "good friends" in the first place if they just decide not to be your friend after a while. Although you've been let down in the past, you have to trust people. I know it's hard when it's failed in the past but what is your other option? Live the rest of your life without any close companions? It'd be a solitude life, very lonely... Not all people are like those so called "best friends" you had in the past. You will eventually find someone you can really relate too. A good friend won't leave you when times get rough. Good luck.

It means she's RUDE. Still medeling in your life after you've broken up with her... If it's getting too annoying talk to your ex about it and make it clear that you don't appreciate it. Is that what there doing or is it just that you THINK they might do that? If she is doing this she sounds like a classic stalker that's not fully over you. Well stalker might be too harsh. I don't think they can find you though. You have a fake name on here and how are they going to find this site? Unlikely.

Dude, think about if you were a chick, and some guy you didn't really like just called you up without you giving him your number, how would you feel? Creeped out hey. Not saying she's not attracted to you, just the worst case scenario here. I don't think you should just call her up without her giving you her number, just my opinion... Get her alone and ask!

Hello, Well there is a difference between having depression and getting the occasional blues. Depression last longer then a few days, it usually is 2 weeks or more of feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness. What you might have is something called S.A.D. Which stands for 'seasonal "something" disorder', sorry forgot what the "A" stands for. It's comes in the winter months. Sounds like you have S.A.D to me but not "true" depression. Either way I think you should see a doctor and see what he has to say, as nobody on here an give you a diagnosis. He might put you on some anti depressants and/or recommend some counselling if you have some issues. Good luck.

Hello Rush, This is going to sound harsh because I'm going to be so very brutally honest here. It sounds like she just said yes to the valentines day date because she had no better options available or she didn't want to hurt your feelings by rejecting you. Her just talking with her friends the whole time and just responding with "yeah, whatever" to you is pretty cold. No I don't think you should have tried and kissed her, because from the info you gave it sounds like that would have been the last thing she wanted you to do! If she really digged you she wouldn't just be responding like that to you. She would have talked more to you and laughed at any stupid thing you say. She would have smiled a lot and seemed excited. She hasn't responed to you since then? Because she isn't interested. Sorry buddy. Don't worry about her and look for girls that LIKE YOU. Good luck!

Hello buddy, Yep, it happens. Sometimes people just move in different directions in life. Sometime you do just grow apart from your partner. No use beating yourself over the head with it. "what if I did this..." or "I shouldn't have done that..." What if's are useless. You can't change the past now. But she didn't mention this as a reason why she broke up with you, did she? Perhaps it didn't really annoy her. It might have made her think you're a very caring person. What were you expecting here, some secret potions? Herbal cures? love spells? Listen the only thing you can do is give her time. If she truly wants to give it another shot, she'll let you know. In the meantime I think you should emerse yourself in your hobbies and friends. Don't sit in your room dwelling on the past. Also, there is a good post called "So you want you ex back? Do's and don'ts" that was written by "The Morrigan" You should find it on here, sorry don't have the link for it right now. Good luck!

Hello Ladies and gentleman, I've been thinking of moving to to a city that's 300 miles away. Right now I live in a small town that's only has a population of around 30, 000. The city I'm thinking of going to has 1.2 million people and I think there'd be alot more out there for me, so much more to do, more opportunities in everything really. The thing is I'm excited when I think of everything that could happen in the city but I'm also scared of change at the same time. I don't really like to leave my "comfort zone" so to speak. If I move to this city I'll be starting fresh. I won't know anyone over there, and I won't have a job straight away. I don't know, I'm really torn between staying or leaving. I've talked to family about this but they're no help really, infact they're useless at giving constructive advice. Which is why I'd rather ask a bunch of strangers on enotalone Any Ideas? Have others here felt like this, scared and excited at the same time?