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  1. I don't know if I would want that kind of drama in my life. I would agree with the first person about this guy avoiding you. The question I would ask you, is this how you would like the rest of you life to be? Some people need drama in their life. I think it makes them feel better about themselves when people are feeling sorry for them. He has a choice to make and if he is not willing to cut his ties with his ex's then I would have to take a good look at this relationship and ask myself is this really what I want. Some times a person has to go through some struggles inorder grow as a person. Good luck
  2. I have a unique relationship w/BF of 1 1/2 yrs. We have both had bi-experiences prior to our relationship. We discussed this numerous time and have played together in a variety of senerios(mostly couples). When we committed to each other we agreed we would only "play" together. Which brings me to my problem... I caught my BF having phone and cyber sex with other guys. When confronted he did not deny what was going on and just said he did not understand why he felt the need to do this. He travels quite a bit and this only happens when he is gone. I feel very betrayed because we agreed to only experience things together. Sometimes I feel he is not honest with himself about his sexual orientation because I have asked for phone sex and he would not. The only thing that makes me doubt that is he fact that our sex life is very strong when together. I do not think a man that is in denial about his orientation could be a caring lover with a female. Any advice or comments helpful.
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