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  1. ROb, I don't think "these" women, myself included need to be entertained, I think we need to know that a marriage is like being part of a team, and when one person isn't being a team player nobody wins. I have found that men do not like to talk about there feelings or here about anyone else's including their wives. They don't want to hear or deal with the negative in their relationship so they choose to ignore the problems and pretend everything is hunky dory. Then after years of feeling like SH*% the woman decides she has had enough and wants a different life, that's when the men act like this the first time they heard of it. Well sorry guys but it's takes two to tango!!
  2. Are we married to the same man? My husband has the same attitude. We don't talk...about anything, (we don't even really fight) we haven't had sex in 3 years and this all seems to be fine with him. I am always the one who brings up our problems, and of course it is always my "issue". I work F/T we have a 3 1/2 year old daughter and I do everything for me, for her and for him, years of feeling unappreciated and used have left me very bitter and angry. My love for him disappeared a long time ago and now i want to live my own life and be free of him. i don't know how or when to tell him because i know he will be shocked and devestated (although I have told him numerous times before I wanted a divorce but never followed through) Although my daughter is young I am so worried about her and how this would affect her in the short and long term. I guess I am chicken and don't want to be the "bad one". my husband is not a bad person he just wasn't meant to be married, he's very selfish and doen't do anything unless it benefits him in some way. So I know how you feel and I am glad I am not the only one (no offense) who has this problem. I f I come up with a solution I will let you know, and vice versa. Good Luck and be strong!
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