samirise

I honestly dont think this has anthing to do with his son. Regardless of the age or person who is infringing on your weekends, this has more to do with you and your husband. You two need some quality time alone, and not the few hours between "after work" and "bedtime" - those just don't cut it. But I really think you should address this issue to your husband, not as a I dont want Johnny coming over on the weekends, but "I would like to spend some time just you and I," leaving Johnny out of it. If he wont leave the nest either then you have some serious talking to do about the importance he places on this relationship Hope this helps

I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and have EXACTLY the same problem. We have talked and talked about it and he says he will try to be more often, but he is always "Tired" etc. I have done so much of the initiation as Mercutio suggested but end up feeling rejected etc when he still denies me. The whole thing has wreaked havoc on my self-esteem etc., but I keep reminding myself, its not me, its something in him that does not want it, or does not feel adequate. Apparently this is a very common problem, and short of initiating or encouraging him to feel better about himself there isnt anything you can do. If you ever find anything, please let ME KNOW too