sunnyv

i can't believe you cheated on me when i was in the hospital. i can't believe you don't feel remorse or even want to come back or even attempt to come back. you are in love with new guy and now and just want to be able to text me whenever for what a comfort zone? i can't be that. so i told you i don't want anything unless its a relationship. so you have not texted me in over a week. i guess you are happy with new guy. your sister said new guy is better for you than me. what am i supposed to do? i thought i was the best for you. i took you on vacation, let you drive my cars, stay at my place, never pay for anything and you do this to me??? me who loved you and only wanted you to get your degree and succeed? me who would go out with you and your friends till 4 am then get up an hour later drive 1.5 hours to work then come home, you would just be sitting there on my couch didn't even surprise me with dinner nothing, i was tired as heck and all you wanted to do was go out?? you act like getting up at 8 am was too early when you would sleep in at my place, now with new guy you get up at 8 am everday? now he is perfect for you and you say you will never cheat on him??? yeahhhh right. your a cheater its who you are. you will cheat again and it will be on him. i promise you that.

Two weeks of nc. Hey starrgrl the next guy u date will be soooo happy u are no longer with ur ex. U deserve the best. Goodluck to u.

i thank everyone for posting the threads of encouragement. it really does help. my ex and i have been broken up since nov. i have done nc till the second week of march. i texted her out of the blue, we started texting, nothing too big, but it was positive communication. i asked her if she wanted to watch a movie one night and she said yes, but she was sure to throw in the "just as friends". i said no problem i'm not looking for a relationship. we watched the movie, i did not try anything and we had an absolute blast. last week we talked on the phone one night and she mentioned she was going to ask me out to see a movie that night but she had taken a nap and slept too late. this weekend she is going out of town to visit some college friends. i am a little nervous she could find someone else or even hook up with one of these friends. my mind is playing out the worst scenarious so i am trying not to think too much of it. i am just trying to get through it if anyone has any advice or any positive words of encouragement i would greatly appreciate it.